So I've slowly over the years became indoctrinated into bdsm, humiliation and tug jobs. To the point oral or full sex really does nothing for me. Which becomes a huge issue with gfs. I mean the first few fumbles with them I get turned on, probably as their new. But then the sex becomes a chore no matter how attractive they might be, I struggle to stay hard with standard sex but just about manage it by thinking of other things. This has led to anxiety issues during sex and poor performance and me ending relationships through embarrassment. My 2 to 3 wanks a day certainly don't help with my issues desiring my lady friends. So my question is to the success stories. Have you been able to normalize your sexual preferences? I long for the day I could get massively excited just groping some beasts let alone the prospect of full sex.