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Possible Triggers: Not enough time for sex...?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by FlatlineFred, Aug 3, 2017.

  1. FlatlineFred

    FlatlineFred Fapstronaut

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    With me on ED blue pills (just a quarter, 25mg now) I can easily take my time. (Sometimes its difficult to get to O)

    And my GF who needs a vibrator involved to O (me inside her and V pressed on her outside and my hands doing all sorts of "rude" things to her!)

    She takes a fair while to O but once she starts she can have more O's spaced out over time.

    She had 5 yesterday to my one!

    So we need a while. (Like a clear hour.)

    "Quickies" don't seem to be possible. Prior to quitting porn, Flatline and ED I could always manage a "quickie".

    I hope after the flatline I can get back to them. But I don't think my GF will appreciate them! She doesn't like to be close to O but not to finish!

    Handjobs from her take a while now too (I get one if my DE goes on too long as a reward for my "good service") and they involve a lot of fantacy in my mind. (Not good practice as I understand it here)

    I am not going to stress about it too much. But it would be nice to get "the quickie" back.

    Never been a huge fan of BJ's but for her it would be a nice confidence boost to make me O that way.

    Onwards and upwards

    I feel to have a sex life at all is a minor miracle at this stage. So there is lots to be grateful for!
     

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