Practical Masturbation?

[1dayasalion]

I have a hypothetical query:

I like getting massages at actual massage places (not shady, back-door, sucky-sucky five dowwa type places). I'm wondering if there might be a time and place for practical masturbation - not for pure pleasure. I would really like to avoid getting a raging hard-on from being massaged at a legitimate place of business.

Thoughts? Ways to cope? I'd prefer not to revert to masturbating/releasing energy

 

[JazzCard]

I'm confused at what you're asking. You're wanting to masturbate at a massage place, or are you worried that the massage therapist will see your raging erection?

 

[1dayasalion]

The second one. The masturbation would come beforehand to prevent it.

 

[You_Can_Do_lt]

Best advice ever:

Skip the massage. You're using it as a tool for rationalization.

Reboot.

 

[William]

You can do it is right. That is your dopamine addicted brain trying to reason with you why you should give a shot of the drug it loves so much. The problem with masturbation for me other porn addicts is that we cannot masturbate without thinking of porn. Porn is seeing it, watching it, MOing to it, PMOing, remembering it, imagining it, fantasizing about it,, etc. You don't need actual pornography to be abusing it, aka, using it as a trigger to release dopamine. Good try though, of all the rationalizations I used before quitting PMO 5 months ago that is one I never used.

Good luck in your journey.

 

[You_Can_Do_lt]

Good try though, of all the rationalizations I used before quitting PMO 5 months ago that is one I never used.

I thought the same thing. Your brain is clever. You should be clever too and recognize that you're tricking yourself.