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Premature Ejaculation is standard?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, May 28, 2019.

  1. Hey guys, i thought about something and want your point of views:

    Might it be that most guys don't really orgasmn when having intercourse/masturbation?

    Of course, I ejaculate but at the same time it doesn't feel like an 'orgasm'.

    Any thoughts? Do you experience orgasms or not? (when you are not on a streak)
     
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  2. Daniel Forster

    Daniel Forster Fapstronaut

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    I guess the only way to ejaculate is by having an organsm, isnt it? You just may not be having a good orgasm, what is totally different from not having an orgasm at all
     
  3. ultrafabber

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    I can definitely relate. I had rarely had a "proper" orgasm in the last 12-15 years. (i was severely PMOing) Many people don't understand this, but ejaculation isn't necessarily an orgasm. I had very rare orgasms from oral sex and masturbation, but 98% of the times it felt more like a sneeze than an actual orgasm.

    I had a very pleasant orgasm once after i completely abstained from any sexual arousal for 60+ days. It reminded me of my first orgasms in adolescence. Then I went on a binge and again.. felt nothing.

    @Daniel Forster
     
  4. Daniel Forster

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    Hmmm, I get it what you mean. As for myself I consider these 'sneeze' as a terrible organsm Haha' - But I got your point. When I was at PMO, masturbating was like an routine, there are days I wasnt horny but I watched porn just like an obligation (Maybe because I was addicted to it? I don't know) when that happens ejaculating felt like nothing you know? Maybe it's similar to what happens to you. But after I started NoFap things got really better, I had sex last weekend, man, I've never such good orgasm like I had last weekend, so maybe ejaculation without orgasm happens because you was watching too much porn, that just my thought about it.
     
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  5. So how was that different from normal orgasm and how was this introduced (i.e. What did you do in order to achive it, did it took long to reach that orgasm?
     
  6. And what I wanted to add aswell: with my previous GF my ejaculations have often been either premature (which left me with an empty, weird feeling) or 'forced', where I really had to concentrate and force myself to ejaculate.

    In both cases I think I didn't had an orgasm...

    What's your thoughts on that?
     
  7. ultrafabber

    ultrafabber Fapstronaut

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    On the very rare occasions it happened i was either very relaxed (no particular stress about anything) or have had a good streak.

    I wouldn't even call most of my orgasms "orgasms", but rather just "releases", cause like i said, i felt next to 0 pleasure.

    Premature ejaculations in particular were very bad and i had those a lot when i had sex. I always went for round 2 immediately and i kept hard for another 15-20 minutes but i had 0 pleasure during sex.

    I think it's partly because of anxiety partly because we fried our neurons with so much porn/edging/ejaculations/sexual fantasizing.
     
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  8. BlaineTrain

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    I know what you're speaking of. Whenever I do it too often, it's just a mechanical release with little to no "orgasm" sensations. So I guess it's still an orgasm physiologically speaking but it sure is a lackluster one. Afterwards I'm just doubly frustrated. Not worth it.
     
  9. Zorglub

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    You didn't mention premature ejaculation? As far as I'm concerned, I tend to be a bit quick when I don't exercise and my orgasm are less strong then. But when I'm fitter and/or with antidepressants, I last longer and orgasms are much stronger to the point that when I have to force myself to come them I can feel the orgasm coming from far away and slowly reaching to the surface, and it's like an explosion.
     
  10. Yeah you are right, I didn't mentioned PE before. It's not that I would say that I do PE, I can last a long enough time (I think for it to be PE it needs to be under 3 minutes).

    But it's a feeling of ejaculating without "reaching the orgasm slowly", it's more like a very short feeling, where you realize you are going to ejaculate but don't feel an orgasm.
    Or, on the other hand, something that drags on and on and you just want it to come to an end and you force yourself to ejaculate, where you don't feel an orgasm either.
     
  11. Zorglub

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    That's unusual I think. Did you seek medical advice?
     

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