Premature Ejaculation

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Teenager, Aug 7, 2020.

  1. Teenager

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    Anyone here who has recovered from masturbation induced PE?
     
  2. DrabToLight

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    Why do you think masturbation has caused your premature ejaculation. All men masturbate during their teenage years and most continue to masturbate their whole life. Well, to be correct - there are two types of males, those that admit to having masturbated and liars.

    Masturbation doesn't cause premature ejaculation. It is normally a physical thing found more frequently in uncircumcised men. Some urologists will recommend circumcision as a treatment for premature ejaculation but, other urologists say it is not a good way to treat the problem.

    See a doctor. There are medications well known to treat PE. Masturbation alone does not cause premature ejaculation and you deserve proper treatment.
     
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  3. Fallensoldier1

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    I wouldn’t say M alone can cause it. But PMO certainly can. Think about it. If you get used to waiting for the right “scene” to finish. You might wait to start touching yourself then, and then easily finish in a few seconds or so.
    You have heightend your sexual senses so much and your sensitive to the fact. Stop touching yourself and save your self for a real relationship
     
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  4. Teenager

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    When I was 14 I could masturbate for 15 mins then i started masturbating quickly and now at 16 i could not last more than 30 seconds even without porn
     
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  5. Teenager

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    Iam on nofap n hoping to overcome PE . And iam really sensitive . Can u tell if there are supplements which can relax ur pelvic floor muscles or stop nocturnal emmisions?
     
  6. Fallensoldier1

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    Well I have had PE with my wife often. And to be honest something I have found that helped with me is macaroot. But be careful. I’m not sure of your age and health conditions. Macaroot is known to increase sex drive and help you last longer and some other benefits but I’m not sure it’s for everyone.

    but it made me last longer. Some of me and my wife’s best times lately was with me taking it. There have been past times I have finished as early as 10 seconds. Bad I know. But with nofap it’s been several minutes. And with nofap and maca we went for probably close to 10 minutes of constant penetration.

    Also I would add if your not married or in a serious relationship don’t worry about PE. PE only really needs to be addressed if your spouse is not satisfied after your encounter.
     
  7. DrabToLight

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    I would highly recommend seeing a doctor.

    There are prescription medications well known to treat PE. Also, when taking any kind of herbal supplements or medications, you need regular blood work to check your liver, kidneys, and the other important bits and pieces inside you such as your lungs and heart.

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  8. Fallensoldier1

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    Plenty of people don’t always want to go to the doctor and surely take any pharmaceutical with almost certainly other side effects.

    What kind of herbs are you suggesting being taken needing regular blood work with? You think taking prescriptions are fine, but more natural herbs need routine checkups?
     
  9. 007_JamesBond

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    An 18 yr old guy in high school solved his premature ejaculation problem by telling his girl friends that he needed to orgasm first and that afterwards he would be able to please them. I suppose they gave him oral sex or a hand job to get him to climax the first time. After the first orgasm I suspect it took him fifteen or thirty minutes to become erect again whereupon he then penetrated them. Couples who care for each other are going to be understanding and accepting of issues that come up and find ways to work around them. Good luck, we don't need to be porn stars.
     
  10. DrabToLight

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    Yes. Herbal supplements are very unregulated and often are recalled. ONLY if the supplement contains an actual prescription drug can the FDA mandate a recall. However, with enough dead consumers or enough threat of danger, many supplements are recalled by the manufacturer.

    Such As...

    This CBD OIL contains high levels of lead which routine blood work would have found.

    https://www.fda.gov/safety/recalls-...kore-organic-watermelon-cbd-oil-due-high-lead

    And Here is a Real Winner. This Company, BEST NUTRITION PRODUCTS was issued a mandatory FDA Recall on Dozens of Supplements. Everything from Tablets of Collagen, Glucosamine Sulfate, DHEA to Yohimbe and quite a few more in between.

    https://www.fda.gov/inspections-com...s/best-nutrition-products-inc-556642-09072018

    Just because something is sold over the counter (without a prescription) does not mean it can be taken without any concern at all.

    Acetomedephin (Tylenol) was causing so much liver damage because many medications contained it. Now all medications such as those for cold and flu relief that contain Acetomedeph must have a large label that they contain that drug.

    Both Alleve and Prilosec cause kidney damage if taken for prolonged periods of time. Prilosec (and its generic omeprazole) are approved for only a 14 day period if purchased without a prescription. Therefore the FDA only allows them to be sold in packs of 14 pills. Very frequently large box stores will sell boxes of 14 that are bundled together. So, people buy 5 boxes of 14 and never see their doctor for blood work until they are in stage 3 kidney failure.

    As far as Macaroot and other Male Sexual Enhancement Products, the list of tainted and recalled products is massive...

    https://www.fda.gov/drugs/medication-health-fraud/tainted-sexual-enhancement-products

    The list above includes so many names I can't list them all.

    So, basically, yes. Any supplements taken should be disclosed to your doctor. Thinking that only prescription drugs have side effects is a mistake.

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  11. Teenager

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    I wish I could see a doctor but I can't. Iam 16 and live in a very conservative family. If my parents found out that I masturbated then they would be so much dissapointed . Masturbation is also forbidden in our religion.So the only option left for me is to try reverse kegals
    P.S sorry for my bad english
     
  12. It's not masturbation that causes premature ejaculation.
    It's wrong way of masturbation that causes premature ejaculation.
    You have to train your brain to last long, and not to reach the edge too fast (don't edge only after you touched yourself for a period of time)
    Since masturbation is a selfish act, most people won't postpone their pleasure just because some day they will have a partner to satisfy.
    Thus, by the time you reach a partner you will have years of training your brain to cum in five minutes.
    So if premature ejaculation is the main problem, then you should change your masturbation rutine.
    If you wish to stop masturbation because of religional reasons DO IT. Its a good practice of self control, and many people develope good habits just to keep them off from thinking on sex all the time. It can be good for you.

    But most importatly, find a partner who doesn't dislike you for a couple of premature ejaculation accidents. (You can use other methods to satisfy her afterwards) . But being angry at a partner because of PE is rude and cruel. Its the same as being angry at your girlfriend for not getting wet, or having a low libido (constant "head hurting"). (they are sexual disfunctions and they are quite common you should try to help eachother and not hating eachother for it)
    The best way of practicing sex is by doing sex. Don't be dissapointed if PE happens. Find a partner who can accept your first couple of accidents.
     
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  13. Fallensoldier1

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    That is true that they say most of the time premature ejaculation is mental, also lots of times ED can be mental as well, performance anxiety. The brain is a powerful thing.
     
  14. ctjohn

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    I've had PE with my wife for a while now. When we met I could last seemingly forever. Now a couple minutes tops. I know there are various reasons from medical to psychological for PE, but I am thinking some/most of my issues are psychological and related to porn. The less sex my wife and I would have, the more I would look at porn. I found myself in a lot of cuckold rooms and eventually convinced myself that she would be happier with a more dominant man. Eventually I was masturbating to the thought of her with another because of my "small, quick penis" (which is about the classiest way I can describe what I would say about myself. <side note - I'm "at worst" average - which means I created much of this in my head>). I'd openly encourage myself to orgasm faster because of this. And in my head (I'm realizing as I type), the faster I climaxed, the more she needed a "Real Man", and the more sexual she would become. Instead of focusing on my wife's needs, I focused on my lusts. In the real world nothing changed with her, so I dove deeper and deeper into porn to create this uber-sexual wife. I'm still five hours away from my first 24 hours in a long time without porn, but this realization is startling to me. I'm praying this will help me last longer and give my wife the sexual pleasure I used to.
     

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