Problem - Solution

The main problem is, we are not treating the problem as the problem.
Instead we think/ assume that the problem is the solution to all your problems..

Hi All,
Most of us would have read that this bad habit is not the solution to our problems in life.
But when we are afraid, scared, sad, anxious, we perform this sin.
WHY??

Because, we don't consider it as sin, or as a harmful act.
Instead we think its the solution to all our problems..

As an example of treating a problem as a real problem..
I have stage fear, whenever I go on stage, I get nervous or words won't come properly.
I understood this as a problem. Then, I started giving more speeches, or talking more on stage.
This happened only after realizing that I have a problem.
But, we are not treating this bad habit as a problem. This is the main problem.