Feeling a little out-on-a-limb with this. I just found this site today and am super impressed and have already found so much amazing resources and supportive people. I did also read some threads- particularly in the relationship section with people with very intense and complicated relationship issues. I wonder if you've ever had a place people can 'consult' with a professional therapist-counselor etc? I've seen a forum with doctors of different types who volunteered to respond to questions. I feel like some of the issues being raised -like childhood sexual abuse- might want some extra sensitivity.