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Prone Masturbation or PIED, not sure

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Sobretension, Jun 17, 2020.

  1. Sobretension

    Sobretension Fapstronaut

    Hi everybody.

    I'm currently 19 years old and I have masturbated prone for at least 10 years. I got into porn (the normal one, nothing weird) for at least 6 years. This has caused me to have problems with my erections when being with a girl, but even then I was able to achieve an erection sometimes.
    The problem is, this year I learned about PMO, PIED and prone masturbation for the first time, and I became disgusted about it. I want to change for good. So I didn't watch it for 3 weeks, but I wanted to test if I had PIED or not, so I put on a video and I was hard in just 1 minute.
    Recently (about 1 month and a half ago) I started talking with a girl, with which I'm currently having one of the best relationships I've ever had, and It's so meaningful to me. Anyway, I've noticed that, when being intimate with her, I seem to have a hard time having a proper erection, as I stand on the 40-50% range. I specially despise this, because I really like her, and I don't want her to think that she doesn't turn me on, which isn't true. But I'm sceptical about telling her this.

    To conclude with, I don't know if I have the bad habit of prone masturbating, if I have PIED, or both. I feel lost
    As of today, I'm on my second day of not watching porn and not masturbating (I tested myself for PIED last week even if I didn't masturbate, so I wanted to be honest with myself and started again). After this week, I will begin treatment to cure prone masturbation addiction. After 1 month, I expect to see better results and I will be able to tell if I really have PIED or if I'm just insecure with this girl, after all, it is the first time I'm being intimate with someone that I really like, and she really turns me on. Maybe I can cure PIED while treating prone masturbation, or maybe my only problem is prone M and I'm anxious about my performance all the time, which doesn't really happen with porn, because there you are alone and not with a partner.

    Sorry for the wall of text, but I wanted to know what any of you guys think about this.

    Any advice is of high value to me.
     
    Last edited: Jun 17, 2020
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    It really disgusting, when u are with ur girls and u could not make it when she is all ready to give herself to you. I have been through this.
    You are young too young and u have started watching porn way to early. So that will definitely have a effect on your mind and sexual development.

    Best part of this is that it can be cured for sure. I am not doctor or expert on this. But, just through some reading and my experience I think you must have PiED. That can be cured...

    First and foremost you have to quit porn and masturbation fully for some days...

    And be aware that's not easy.....

    But, believe me things change for good.


    Reach out to people on this for us discuss your problems with them ( people who have achieved and overcome there problem)

    First and formost educate yourself about porn masturbation addiction.


    Best part is you are here at earlier stage just 19 yr.... It's good.... So start the journey..

    I am sharing few articles read them carefully... And read all content on that.....

    It will show you the path for good.

    Best luck little brother..... Me the little one of u and u have peace.

    Best wishes
     
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  7. Sobretension

    Sobretension Fapstronaut

    Thank you so much for the links. I've read them and I think that they are the most complete source of info I've read here.
     
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    That site has best content read it
     

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