Prostate ejaculation vs normal ejaculation

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by learning, Jul 12, 2020.

  1. You guys are egoists. Why are you discussing this potentially highly triggering stuff in the abstinence forum?
     
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  3. learning

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    I do not know all the circumstances that resulted in @Prince6543 having his account suspended, but I hope we all remember that everybody here is trying to overcome addiction and needs to be given at least some latitude to be imperfect. I thought some of his concerns were a little bit extreme, but I think they were offered in good faith and were not entirely wrong. I hate to see anybody discouraged from sharing their honest opinions regardless of what those opinions might be, because that is a good way for a person to learn when their opinions are wrong or oversimplified. I know that my own opinions are often wrong and oversimplified, and I know that I have learned by being able to share them and get opinions from others.
     
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  5. zenon27

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    i like how people associate prostate message with being gay, people keep forgetting bisexual exist also and fact that male G spot is in there there is no way that straight men don't get pleasure from getting it stimulated. That's like saying you hitting a girls G spot and she isn't feeling anything, if that happens, she needs a doctor because its called G spot for a reason and any person no matter the sexual orientation will feel it and it will be pleasurable. I did the finger didn't like it, but even I can recognize that if i was to massage my glance i will most likely feel it but I don't hunger that.
     
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  6. learning

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    Yeah, also there is variation in our anatomy, and some technique for prostate stimulation that works for one person may not work for another person. In my case, none of the techniques work, so I assume it is deeper in my body and less accessible. Or maybe I just don't know how to do the techniques properly. I can seem to stimulate using my own pelvic floor muscles, but it is quite an ordeal to reach that point - hours and hours of effort.
     
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  7. zenon27

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    I can relate. Then I'm like you man, I was using lub also and I was being open minded about it, trying my middle finger and rubbing it inside but I can't seem to get pleasure from it. I'm not sure if I'm doing something wrong because I can feel my glance giving me pleasure so it shouldn't be that far in then, but the pleasure its mostly when I'm releasing gas over the day, the moment when its storing for a moment, but I get no pleasure from when I have a finger inside, I tried all places also, I'm confused about this actually, not to mention that many times people associate anal penetration's with sub act but in my nature I'm actually very dominant and into BDSM, I wonder if this not being able to feel it as some others have anything to do with our nature psyche, maybe we aren't as sensitive down there as we expected, because I feel like I'll enjoy sticking a finger up my ass but I feel nothing, outside little bit of unconformable pain and nothing after that

    There is many sensitive places also there is a V sign at the top of the penis, which also if a girl does use tong there it will stimulate the penis more.
     
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  8. lilsunny

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    What I do know is that the more you think about this stuff, the more aroused you become and the more you set yourself up to give in again. I've noticed a few posters ITT essentially rationalising different, innovative kinds of ways to ejaculate as a way of getting out of suffering. This is all wrong. Do you really want to be the guy that gets off putting things up his ass as a way of not feeling pain because he quit masturbating in the usual fashion? I feel like you've lost sight of why you and the rest of us are doing this.

    Believe me, I know how horrible it is. Porn withdrawal is brutal. But you have to man up and get on with your life. That means bearing through the blue-balls detox stage without compromises and fruitless enquiries that only lead you to failure.

    That's my two cents, although of course if you really want to put stuff up your ass nobody can stop you
     
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  9. learning

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    I agree that discussing various ways of orgasming and ejaculating might not be helpful if a person is struggling to abstain.

    FWIW, prostate stimulation and anal stimulation are not identical. For some people the prostate gland can be stimulated by applying pressure through the wall of the rectum. So you penetrate the anus, but the goal is not to stimulate the anus. The anus is just something giving you access to the prostate.

    The problem is that for some people the prostate seems to be buried too deep anatomically to easily stimulate through either the rectum or perineum. That seems to be the case for me.

    But like you said, it probably isn't a very helpful discussion for people who are trying to overcome their PMO problems. :)
     
  10. zenon27

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    the problem is I've been diagnosed with OCD by a specialist and thinking about something doesn't mean I'll enjoy it, on the time I had anal sensations I felt Ill enjoy my finger, but I didn't, I don't think of sticking bigger things inside my ass, if finger doesn't work, i don't plan to violate myself for the sake of testing because this is how it actually feels now, just adapting to nothing, to nothing until you become so used to it you do it as a mechanical responds, I also been leaking yellow mucus which is not a good sign it may mean I have IBS or some bacteria battling. OCD made me test further, like gay porn, i notice a pattern.

    I have this only when I'm at home under a shit ton of stress and my life is on a hold. When I get my shit together I feel better
     
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    Hi all.
    I have been thinking about breeding my male california king snake for a while and now i have a chance to buy an albino.So my question is if i breed them will the babies all be normal het for albino?
     

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