I have difficulties accepting that. Just because she can't live with something we mess up doesn't mean she wasn't meant for us. Reality is hard. Some things need some work to achieve. I agree with that connecting with the girl is important, that's exactly my point, I wouldn't want to mess that up over something stupid like ED caused by porn and fap. I can't expect a girl to simply accept this and I certainly cannot believe her acceptance of my mess-up should play a major role in whether or not she's a perfect fit.