Prostitutes over porn - does it help? My experience.

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by hunter101, Sep 27, 2019.

  1. No, I don't know why anyone with a functioning brain would even consider asking that. You're getting the same effect, with more financial and moral burden, and you're undirectly supporting sex traficking.
    ''Stop smoking, do something healthier like drinking''
     
  2. arthyols

    arthyols New Fapstronaut

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    A great post; you have painted everything in such detail on the points. I love it when people do this. I agree with you on all issues. Mainly I remember how you expressed yourself about STDs. There are huge problems with this, even now. As far as I know, many people who work and provide escort services suffer from various diseases that they don't even know about. And therefore, whenever I want to hire an escort, I demand a certificate from a gynecologist that everything is fine with them because this is my health, and then I don't want to have problems with the sexual system.
     
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  3. clapas

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    And that was your first post on this forum.
     
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  4. g2stop

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    I guess it depends on what your goals are. If you want to build a life with a woman you love and who loves you, visiting escorts is putting the wrong message into your mind. It is teaching yourself that you cannot find love but you have to pay for it.

    If your goal in life is to sleep with as many women as possible (because porn has implanted that goal into you) then visiting escorts will help with that goal.

    but you have to ask yourself which goal is what you really want and which has been programmed into you by society and porn.

    which goal will allow you to build the life you want experience the richness life has to offer

    different people will be drawn to one of the other, it is only important to understand which is right for you
     
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  5. Mr.Tony

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    What type of Goal is that... The shortest road to life destruction.
     
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  6. g2stop

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    Exactly, a porn implanted goal as I said. Porn is not a good thing as we all know.
     
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  7. Internet pornography and prostitutes are two different things. I would go so far and say it is unrelated.

    Internet pornography:
    Being hooked to unlimited content which you can switch between in high speed.


    Prostitutes:
    Sexual intercourse with a person who allows you to use her body against pay.


    Sex with prostitutes has the greater health risks, but it is less addictive than internet pornography.

    In any case, you can not 'heal' the one with the other. Rather, you are inviting another problem into your live by frequenting prostitutes.

    The only way to quit porn is to quit porn. It is an illusion that you can stop one bad habit by adopting further other bad habits. That is like starting to smoke in order to stop drinking.
     
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  8. sclguy

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    You sure it's less addictive? It's just less affordable.
     
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  9. I agree with you: IF sex with prostitutes could be had as frequently as you open new porn content then it would also be as addictive. The scenario is not very realistic though.

    You spoil your reward mechanism by training it to fire at every next picture or video you click on. You build up a closer bond to the person you have sex with. Different mechanisms at work imo.
     
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  10. CastratedLegend1

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    The key of NoFap is to utterly exclude women

    Genesis 3:12 And the man answered, “The woman whom You gave me, she gave me fruit from the tree, and I ate it.”

    Women are the root of all evil and are nothing but tools to further Satan's agenda for world dominance
     
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  11. Well, 'utterly exclude women' implies the end of mankind in about 100 years

    Btw: There is no evil in this world. Evil exists only in fairy tales. The complex truth is that every human, yet every being has best intentions and attempts to do the right thing with every single action. Of course, this does not mean that other peoples intentions are in-line with our own interest and values. However, it is presumptuous to judge others, their mindset or ideals as bad or wrong. They have the same right of having an opinion as we have. This means indeed that there is no right or wrong. There are only opinions and values, and they may differ.

    For instance, some people like to troll, while others point it out. You can not say the one is bad, the other is not. Everybody has their values and needs.
     
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  12. CastratedLegend1

    CastratedLegend1 Fapstronaut

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    We either die a hero.... or live long enough to see ourselves become the villan as the famous quote goes
     
  13. sclguy

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    The fuck you talkin' 'bout, dude?

    Addiction comes from an empty void inside ourselves. Some use drugs, other people alcohol, we use sex, porn and masturbation to fill that void. We're not victims of female demonic entities.
     
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    I have heard something like this, but it is really true or just your imagination ? @hunter101
     
  15. CastratedLegend1

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    that empty void is lacking knowledge there needs to be a specific revelation to eternally secure our souls in the departing of degeneracy viewing network (porn) consumption
     
  16. CastratedLegend1

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    i dont hate women, i hate evil and im totally justified in doing so. you may be scared of this since you probably are evil yourself and are afraid of the truth but

    women must be kept in line by the men strictly if hey dont then all chaos breaks lose and whores are everywhere in a matter of no time
     
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  17. Ghost79

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    How do you "clean your system" after having sex with someone who has mental bagage when you feel it has affected you too?
     
  18. CastratedLegend1

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    cut off your ballsack

    Matthew 5:30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to depart into hell.

    did he say "but i was just speaking metaphoricially guys"?
     
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  19. JoeinMD

    JoeinMD Fapstronaut

    I think one can masturbate with one's hand or by using someone else's body as a masturbation sex toy. One's "higher purpose" and spiritual life ideals are never achieved with either.
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  20. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Or we become the Castrated, The Legend
     

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