Prostitutes over porn - does it help? My experience.

Interesting!

 

I will say two things

1. Porn is shit and prostitute is far more better, as its a real sex
2. But if you are seriously doing nofap or reboot then its better, not to lose the seminal energy.

 

You will hate me for this, but i will try one year:

• NoPMO
  
• Once a week visiting prostitute

After 7 days abstinance you have a testosterone peak. What will happen, if you have this peak every week?

 

Same damage. Both watching porn and visting brothels are highly stimulating and addictive.
Both will keep you blinded from seeing the true beauty of the female spirit.
Visiting brothels also lowers your self-esteem.
It will reinforce the idea that you are uninteresting to women and the only way to get laid is to pay for it.
Same goes to her, she will think that she is worthless because any man could sleep with her, just because he offered her $$$.
The sad bit is that it is becoming an easy escape for young females. It is becoming trendy to sell their body for money. And by participating in this , you are encouraging more young women to enter this domain....
Real men are more responsible.

 

Not everyone is born as chad or tyrone and able to get free sex via tinder.
But we men have all the same desires. So what is a real men?
To suffer with unfulfilled desires?

 

A real man is a responsible man.
Use this unfulfilled desire as a fuel to become a better man.

 

yes and no- from OP post ''

Having sex with prostitutes has devalued sex in such a way that it does not feel special anymore. In my view, sex is a special and deep act to be shared with someone you appreciate. Sex with prostitutes has devalued it which will impact my quality of deep connection with women in the future.''

but do women think the same? do they not devalue sex in some way as they can turn themselves off emotionally during the act (we cant due to need for erection)
if they sleep with so many men, normal girls, not escorts then dont tell me they value the sex iin the same way as men.

average girl has a count of 60-100 in her 20s EASILY. They never tell us that because we would think about them badly ofc. its all a charade.

with that being said, we are biologically made this way to feel connected. its easier for a woman to have a harem of say 6 men
than for a man to know he is ''one from 6 others''

also sometimes u want mostly sex, no relationship. women are spoiled these days. you pay the price anyway whether in money or time or other stuff.

of course, escorting is bad.
both for girls and men.
but we both do it.

nobodys perfect

 

no absolutely not dont do it ever!!

 

Escorts are a far worse choice than porn, these girls live in a dark world almost all are drug addicts, they will do what ever it takes to get the money to feed there habit. I was a cop for 20 years in my experience no one is more manipulative than a drug addict unless she a prostitute too. The emotional for me seeing them and the financial loss almost destroyed me. I have decided to live a life of celibacy
the dates with these women where more about dopamine hits and being lonely.
The after effects are far worse when I seen them. My sex drive is not that high anymore so it’s not as hard as it would have been when I was young.

 

if escorts using drugs live in a dark world... then where lives a cop who uses such escorts? jk of course sex is a helluva drug

 

I’m retired and yes listen Bob Segar Fire Down Below. I’ve been in a lot of dark places the job will do that to you.
I’m retired from seeing escorts too, after I retired then a divorce, depression and being lonely set in. But I’m good now and happy.

 

Oh by the way I’ve met some very nice higher end escorts that did not have addiction issues, so there are some good ones out there, but of course that don’t help the other issues, I mean if just can’t s it’s chicks seeing a girl once a month does not sound like an addiction or a problem.
But for me I went over board for a while.

 

I see I see

''mean if just can’t s it’s chicks seeing'' sorry could you rephrase that?

u know every time I saw an escort, usually I tell her that we both need to finish with this. because its a problem for both of us.

 

My opinion is that prostitutes prevent real relationships. So if your goal is never to get into a real relationship and spend the rest of your life with no real emotional connection, getting sexual release from people who are not attracted to you, then this is an option.

 

Um sorry what I meant to say is I guess if you can afford it and control it perhaps it’s no big deal, but I agree seeing them
is going to hamper you from having a living relationship with a women.
Which I honestly want again so bad. I miss
and still love my wife I’m 57 a former bodybuilder I’m still in very good shape and never had a shortage of women.
But it’s very hard to meet someone these days unless you do online dating.
I still work I’m a security officer in a hospital in metro Detroit I got a nurse friend at work 37 booty call only she wants
nothing more. I’m lonely as hell.
Just bought a house last year by the water
it’s old but nice I think it’s just gonna be me and my two Corgis for along time.
It’s so hard to meet woman who are single

 

Looks like men are biologically wounded, that is, we simply can't be alone? Or we can but we suffer.

Well then women are never alone in comparison...

 

Women aren't spoiled. If you are woman looking for a decent man, that hasn't been messed up on porn, that's hard to find. And women want men emotionally, and men who are jacked up on porn can't emotionally connect. An erection is not an emotional connection.

 

I agree totally

 

And he thinks the average girl has 60+ partners? Lol, my skankiest, friend who admits to having a problem with sex has only slept with 10 men in her lifetime and 2 women. Almost every female friend I know has slept with less than 3 men. My best friend, who married the man she was only having a “ one night stand” with has only slept with 3in her lifetime. I think men vastly underestimate how careful the average woman is when it comes to sexual partners.