Psychology behind porn turning you into somthing your not. fetishes, gender confusion, gay & more

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  1. Chipbiggens

    Chipbiggens Fapstronaut

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    Porn uses tactics know well know in psychology as; learning-study-guide-2795698_FINAL-5bec544ac9e77c005185519d.png

    Classical conditioning

    A study how a dogs mouth would salivate to food, but not a whistle.
    but when the whistle sound was continuously made as the dog got food.
    Then the whistle alone would make the dog salivate.


    So if the girl your viewing is the food, and the stuff she says is the sound of the whistle well you can kind of see how those trigger words such as your a salve, your loser, faggot etc could turn you on.

    Operant conditioning

    mouse given a lever pulls lever gets reward, mouse continuously pulls lever till exhaustion, kind of like porn addiction right pull for reward can't stop haha.

    In porn the excitement is what raises the blood pressure gives you reward. What is more exciting being loved or being attacked. Yes so when they call you a loser faggot that's more exciting than saying you got a big cock. So in turn that's going to be more pleasurable, but it will hurt you emotionally, and give you problems. Also when they say things about you like your salve, faggot etc their faces light up its almost like they give you a reward right when you have that untrue image of yourself in your head the one they suggested. so its almost like they teach you to want to here those things they say about you because it makes you rewarded aka happy lol so your happy when they say those things about you. waiting for them to say it so you can get your reward is anticipation which also raises excitement.

    Observational learning
    best seen how a kid might imitate their dad

    if all you see if a woman getting fucked and her acting like it's ecstasy with all the hypnotic suggestions, subliminal messages and plain forward in your face suggestions porn can make you desire being a girl it can be a turn on its one of the many porn fetishes.

    My honest opinion
    I'm not a psychologist, I know I'm leaving out so many things, things i dont know and understand, things i dont fully know but i do know the porn industry have teams and teams of psychologists who know exactly how to control your mind.

    Sorry for my terrible English and lack of knowledge maybe someone with a psychology degree can better explain it better. maybe NoFap should hire psychologist to study how porn does this.
     
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  2. Bandeirante

    Bandeirante Fapstronaut

    Jesus! That is exactly how femdom and sissy hypno videos get you hooked in the first place!
    No wonder it progress slowly through your mind, It shows what naturally is attractive to you and then the image is associated with certain words - humiliating words - then the images and the words get associated with images you wouldn't find naturally attractive at ( like, naked male bodies in the case of heterossexual men). All of a sudden you find yourself doing and thinking things you would never do or think If It wasn't for the porn you've been consuming. That's why our mind gets fucked up badly and people start having intrusive thoughts, anxiety, depressivo , etc. The mind knows something is wrong.

    I can't help but think that there is something really dark behind all of these hypno videos. They are all Very professional and clearly made by people who understands psychology Very well.
     
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  3. Chipbiggens

    Chipbiggens Fapstronaut

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    Let's talk about Porn Induced Triggers (PIT). Porn has thought us how to feel, what we want and who to be.

    This stuff they have thought us is posien, it does not align with who we want to be and therfore it makes us unhappy.

    Is abstaining really going to change my mind, I don't know I don't think so, will the triggers go I don't know I don't think so.

    Do we need repormaning I mean surely if we were computers we would. I don't think abstaining will stop triggers. It's like trauma giving you axitey after 4 year of staying away from spiders the spiders will still trigger you.

    I think PITs need to go the way they came.
    For instance a sissy trigger might be seeging woman's clothing and it turning you on thinking about wearing it.
    how did it orginiate? Maybe a porn video of woman programing you to think it's sexy by using her sexy voice and body body language to trick your brain into thinking that way.
    So maybe the opposite of that would be watching the same video with an ulgy man saying everything she said in a manly and unappealing way somthing that clearly won't turn you on, somthing that will turn you off in disguest. Therefore you will see wearing those items as desgusting. Thus killing the trigger.

    Any thoughts on that?
     
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  4. mana95

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    What about pain arise with past porn urgers, it relieves only after doing pmo. That is really disgusting man. It make you can not masturbate without porn. The addiction is really serious in that way. Where we need to do meditation or control us. That is not easy but worth a try.
     
  5. Onwards90

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    Yes it doesn't align with us at all, it's fantasy , fantasy is not in anyway reality . Our brains are an oddity sometimes ,

    I have an odd thing with tranny , porn and it messed with my head for a bit until I began to understand what was really going on.

    When you see tranny porn you fall into a fantasy world and see a women with your genitals your mind makes up its own scenarios. If this person did not have all this surgery to look this feminine , had a beard a deep voice and looked like a man it would be an instant turn off,

    Initially it already is a turn off , but there's something about disgust that can intrigue , then you fall into the fantasy and you see it as a women .

    In the world of fantasy the brain does wha it wants it's fucked up .

    Even if I wanted to get with a male I wouldnt be able to .
    I wouldn't be able to get with a tranny in real life because I know the reality. But the porn still creates a fantasy world that isn't a man. It's weird.

    But it's not something I will keep watching for fantasy .

    Because when you stop watching your brain doesn't know how to process the fantasy or process a tranny all it knows is that's male and you must be gay.

    But no male is sexually attractive to you and your not gay, this genre is marketed mainly to straight guys .

    It's literally a fantasy of a women having a dick but it's a women in fantasy , not a women you know with a vagina, an even more femine women but the sex drive of you. It's an odd fantasy . It doesn't exist and the reality is far from what you would ever get off at. A male .

    It's definitely something that should be avoided unless your fully aware of the fantasy, and that you will always be questioning and feeling shame when the reality sets in .

    This couldn't be farther from normal porn , even normal porn is considered not reality ,

    So this is a step of escalation your better not partaking in

    And just on the topic of normal porn , and how it teaches us to think . Porn is lazy. And it desensitises you to reality , if you watch millions of images of women over the years without a break your going to get bored and be less able to perform in reality because youve overstimulated your brain. It's all staged , and will make real life boring . Then you have fetishes and fantasy that can have you questioning your sexuality because a literal fucking man has had surgery to look like a women and your brain has escalated to that point where your thinking this chick knows what it feels like , how to pleasure you how your brain works etc and before you know you see the fantasy . But it's an actual man .
    Porn really is some freaky degenerate shit.

    If you want to fuck up your real sexual experiences, get less from them , potentially give yourself erectile dysfunction because the realm thing isn't as stimulating and potentially be one of these guys who are so aroused by the fantasy they go out and fuck a guy who looks like a women .

    That's the porn industry it's warped for sure
     
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  6. Chipbiggens

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    The numerous classical conditioning studies suggests that by being aroused when combining the two, woman and dicks, can make you into just dicks alone. We can see this intention easily in sissy hipno.

    So if you find yourself aroused by dicks or even being atracted to men after watch that stuff you've been programed by porn.

    What I'm interested in is how to reverse the damage with the same conditioning techniques.
     
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  7. Onwards90

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    If that's , abstaining probably
     
  8. Chipbiggens

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    No no no no abstaining is more like quiting smoking cold turkey where as I'm interested is changing your feelings towards it.

    Like I love smoking but I quit because of the negivite health problems it was causing. Still my feeling towards smoking are the same today after 3years without smoking but my feelings towards smoking doesn't damage my soul.

    My feelings toward let's say sissy porn is it's hot now let's say I quit it and abstained im still going to think its hot but the difference is unlike loving smoking it damages your soul.

    What I'm really interested in is Changing your feelings towards it making you think its disgusting instead of hot. Porn got you to think it's hot using the conditioning techniques I talked about in my first post but the same techniques can be use to make you think it's disgusting.
     
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