I’ll post this for us to collect reasons to stay as we are, public or to consider the pluses of privacy. -If it’s here, our SO will know it’s a place for us to work out things ourselves. As they shouldn’t read our journals. But if I were acting out, our SO could check wtf was going on. -could be more input by others. -it’s anonymous already, no extra privacy needed. -If it’s really questionable pm or call someone. If it really questionable, do you really have to ask? -Private could allow us issues we don’t fully understand yet. Not risking triggering SO Like a men’s group I was in years ago.