i'm trying to cut out frivolous references to sex or initiating discussion of sexual subjects. i'm not like that in many circumstances and you wouldn't find much evidence of this in my posts but in real life i have a rather lose tongue, often using sexual imagery for humor or illustration and i'm almost a go to person to talk to about any kind of sexual challenge because ppl think i won't mind or be shocked. and i'm not. however, this also supports a kind of ongoing interest in that world and often i have ended up in pornographic vicinity or pornography just to check on some curiosity. the line between [wholesome or justifiable] interest and indulgence is rather blurry there for me and so i like to cut this out. my aspiration is to track this until i have a kind of purity for 108 days that i'm somehow satisfied with. i don't expect this to change my life but i'm open to anything. after all, speech is a huge part of identity, both in expression and formation. anybody with thoughts on this, quotes, experiences that they like to share: i would be interested to learn.