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Question about positive changes after abstaining from PMO for 30 days or more.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Helplessnomore, Dec 12, 2016.

  1. Helplessnomore

    Helplessnomore Fapstronaut

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    I've read success stories in which people describe how they fapped 2-3 times a day or more and had no life whatsoever and then they suddenly changed after abstaining.

    But I am still not convinced about the changes they have mentioned. Because as far as I have seen, most of them changed another aspect about their life, which might have contributed to the actual changes.

    Plus no one really explains how an aspect about them changed. Can anyone explain?
     
  2. douggie1962

    douggie1962 Fapstronaut

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    I'll try to explain what I am experiencing with these quotes:

    “Lies and secrets, Tessa, they are like a cancer in the soul. They eat away what is good and leave only destruction behind.”
    Cassandra Clare, Clockwork Prince
    I came to realize that the lies and secrets related to my PMO problem were eating away at my soul like a cancer. My energy was increasingly being focused inward and all other areas of my life were beginning to shrivel up and die.

    “The moment will arrive when you are comfortable with who you are, and what you are– bald or old or fat or poor, successful or struggling- when you don't feel the need to apologize for anything or to deny anything. To be comfortable in your own skin is the beginning of strength.”
    Charles B. Handy

    Now, in this moment, I am not ashamed of myself or feel the need to apologize for my lies and secrets, they don't exist and have no power over me. I am comfortable in my own skin and I can feel the strength of my personality growing each day.

    Be Strong My Friend.
     
  3. SuperLulox

    SuperLulox Fapstronaut

    Well at least for me, when im off pmo y feel better overall about myself. I realize i can do more with my life other than sitting alone in my room touching ny dong. This realization helps me get shit done. I feel more motivated to do shit, and i noticed that my view of woman changed abd so did my way of talking with them.
    Just hang in there and see for yourself, best of luck man
     
  4. lp123

    lp123 Fapstronaut

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    nofap is a platform to build an abundant life. alone it's not the remedy. but it helps a whole lot. the rest is still up to us.
     
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