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Question about reboot

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Newlife793, Jul 5, 2017.

  1. Newlife793

    Newlife793 Fapstronaut

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    hi, I am on my first day after a relapse and I don't have a girlfriend or nothing at the moment because of my pied. I heard of something called "rewiring" and I am worried I'll never be able to get back to normal without having a girlfriend. How do I "rewire" without one? Will my erections come back naturally or do I need a girlfriend? Thanks.
     
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  2. Newlife793

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    Day 2 of my reboot, feeling pretty positive this morning. Can't wait to see what the future holds.
     
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  3. well rewiring is what happens in your brain when you do your reboot, when you break out of your porn addiction
    You dont need a girlfriend to do this
    Also what you mean with "Will my erections come back naturally or do I need a girlfriend?" you will get an erection even if you never ever fap again
    While doing nofap i just experienced its much harder to get an erection just from thoughts but much easier from actually interacting with a girl like from a kiss or from touching
    But maybe tell me what you exactly mean
     
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  4. Newlife793

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    What I meant by that is will I definitely have to fail again and go through that embarrassment again or will they come back naturally after my porn addiction? I've seen people talking about finding a girl to mess around with but not have sex and that's what you need to "rewire" I'm new to this rewiring thing. Lol
     
  5. Everything will come back naturally after the addiction. Right now, I wouldn't be worried about just trying to find a girl to mess with. Instead, use your energy towards focusing on beating this. You can do it!
     
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  6. Newlife793

    Newlife793 Fapstronaut

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    Okay man. That's a lot of weight off my shoulders. I failed with a girl one time before I knew about the problem and she told EVERYONE...worst experience of my life.
     
  7. Drew140

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    The best time to rewire is when you don't have a girlfriend. That's my situation and why I'm doing a hard reboot now
     
  8. Newlife793

    Newlife793 Fapstronaut

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    Okay awesome, how many days are you into your reboot now?
     
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    If you choose a hard reboot it's going to hurt.
     
  11. Josh88

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    Rewiring is what happens when your brain starts changing to its natural form without the influence of porn or human presence. Rewiring will help beat your PIED. Worrying that you "need a girlfriend" in order to rewire is part of the problem. You don't. Your erections will come back naturally when your brain starts changing, not when your relationship status changes. Good luck on your rewiring process.
     
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  12. Newlife793

    Newlife793 Fapstronaut

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    Awesome good job man!
     
  13. Newlife793

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    Okay thanks for the information!
     

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