Hey all, So my husband is new to the reboot, to get our history/my story - please check out my journal. Long story short, I've caught him PM'ing / lying /denying way too many times. He's on his last leg with me, us; our marriage. After our latest D-Day, he joined this forum in the hopes of finally getting this addiction under control and to save our marriage. Our BIGGEST issue was his lying and dishonesty about it all. So, every night we've been having honest, raw one on one talks and I think it has really been helping us (so far.) Don't want to count my chickens, before they've hatched... So he says his trigger is purely M. Meaning he really just enjoys the act of M, but after a while just M'ing doesn't happen quick enough, so he resorts to P to get more stimulation, to release quicker. All the while, we have never had any issues in the bedroom department and have always active, so................... Do you guys think it's okay for us to continue to be intimate, since we both enjoy it or will this negatively impact his recovery process? he claims that he never confused/mixed the two, as to him they were always separate. He says he still loves me, finds me attractive and wants to be intimate and to be honest, as much hurt that I feel, I'm also still very attracted to him and still really enjoy "it" too. So, thoughts?