Question: Does losing your virginity help?

I lost my virginity, had sex with prostitutes, and in my experience, no, it doesn't help with your addiction. In fact, I'd say it made it worse, because of the sensations and feelings meant I applied them to my fantasies and what porn I used. Suddenly, when watching porn, I could imagine what the actress's skin felt like, what she smelt like, her touch and sounds, based on my own experiences.

I'm not going to get into the whole keep your virginity or not debate, because there's so much idealism, and not much realism, but my experience is just there to help you decide.

 

It’ll help you grow as a man, but it won’t do anything for your porn habit. No one you want to go to bed with is going to give you the time of day until you start behaving like a man and not a boy. Cultivate your self.

 

Probably get back lash from this. In my experience, I think sex is overrated. I didn't lose mine until 25.

 

I don't know what your NoFap journey is exactly, but having S won't help you stop watching P. It won't help you grow as a man. It rarely helps anyone in the ways they expect. If you rush to "do it" with any old person just to get the "benefit," no. It's not worth it.

An addiction to porn is about addiction to dopamine on demand, and it's about addiction to sexual fantasy. That's what P is, it's a fantasy. Women do not act like that. They do not scream like that. They do not beg for it like that, they aren't that horny. The things they do are designed to look good for a camera, they do not feel good, to them or to women in general or to men in general. P is about selling the fantasy of amazing recreational sex, where real, good sex is about bonding with your partner.

It's like watching a cop show on TV. The show makes it all dramatic and hardcore, with guns blazing, catching serial killers and rapists with DNA samples and serving up JUSTICE with a tazer and a witty quip. You'd be an idiot to think being a real cop is like that at all. In the real world, being a cop isn't even the same thing as on a show, and real S isn't even the same thing as what is shown in P.