your overall curiosity is very mesmerizing and almost everyone gave an answer from the bottom of their heart .reading this thread was interesting. frankly answer to these question are not black and white and depends upon many things first and foremost that individual, then culture, religion country bla bla bla. but I would like to put forward my own experience and the way I know men Yes, most guys internally regret hurting girls. But, they will pretend otherwise. Because for we men many times looking cool in fellows is more important and that is the reason, we guys generally behave very differently with fellow guys and with our girls. this depends purely on the guys and cannot be generalized.Yes, there are people who select partners looking at material things like money career etc but that is true with girls also I guess. I have a friend who always admired well-settled girls and there are many who search for other things in girls when they want to find a partner .... I think probably because Almost all of us, most of the guys I know or seen , wants to have many physical partners that too casual one. but this is not that easy. Girls tend to seek more emotion and love. for settle in life they choose other types, trustwothy , conservative etc few tips..... 1.don't share bed way too early, make him earn it. Those who are easily available or share intimate momments are not respected that much<it may sound blunt ,but true> 2.The person who loves always try to solve your problem, and the person who has lust, will take advantage of your problem to make you sleep by showing sympathy but not doing anything for that. so try to share your problems and test. genrally lustfull guys will run away if he has more of responsibility <pain> than gains<u know what i am talking abt> dont go with any preconceived notions. Enjoy the moments and take your time.We guys are equally insure in dates and there is no fix rule i guess..... hahahahhahah really not at allllll Your questions were too interesting though.....loved answering them. 3.The lustful in one way or other tries to take you in the same direction ie physical one 4. Generally who respect other women will also respect you and lustful will be lustful for all but will show you that you are different.