Questioning Sexuality

Yessah123 · Feb 3, 2019

Hello Everybody,

I am still on the path to giving up pornography, but, am still very much confused.

I remember feeling attraction to females and only females, with an attraction to men, but never in a sexual manner.

However, as my porn consumption over the years has increased, I have only had more doubt regarding my sexuality.

Recently, I have not felt any attraction towards women, and any sexual fantasies I think of with women, I cannot get an erection. I watched gay pornography the other day to try and confirm my sexuality, and did get sexual arousal to it, but not much.

Does this mean I've "turned" gay, have been bisexual, or is it simply a symptom of prolonged porn consumption?

Joe1023 · Feb 18, 2019

That's a tough one and unfortunately I cannot begin to answer it other than to say that I would talk with a CSAT (Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist) about this.

Deleted Account · Feb 19, 2019

Please look up Gary Wilson's article Can You Trust Your Johnson. It will tell you everything you need to know.

Tannhauser · Feb 19, 2019

This is extremely common. Before you worry about your true sexuality, you've got to quit porn. Then you can address the issue. Lots of guys start to think that they are Gay or Bi due to the influence of porn, only to find that once they cut out porn completely they revert back to their original sexuality.

bigboibez · Feb 19, 2019

If you were straight before porn you're straight. Quit PMO and you'll go back to normal. Trust the process and never look back.

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