Hello everyone. I read a couple articles on the subreddit tonight and was wondering a couple things. Supposely that after 3-4 weeks of abstinence, many start producing more pheromones and girls get very attracted by all that testosterone and manliness. Some said they have a radar for those things, which is just hilarious loll but seriously, is there any truth to this? I saw A TON of people claiming this so parts of me tend to believe there might be some truth to this but I'd like to hear more about it. Also, let's say, when I reach 3-4 weeks, girls start getting all flirtarious with me and some want me in their bed, am I supposed to tell them I can't do it because I'm doing NoFap? I'm very conflicted. I'm doing NoFap, because I want to re-become the man I used to be before I started watching porn but I won't lie to myself, I want to be in a relationship for the first time in 14 years ...but I'm also in it for the sex, obviously. I saw some say sex is okay if there's no porn or masturbation, some say it isn't and I really don't know what to do when I'll have a lusty girl wanting me. I'm very determined to succeed in my reboot (I'm on day 11 in Hard Mode and have zero interest in PMO) but I won't abstrain from sex if it's recommanded. It's also one of my secondary goal but I don't want to undo all the effects of my reboot because it's not the main reason I'm doing this. I just don't want to miss an opportunity, I already missed so many in the last decade... too many I can't even remember. Which brings me to my next point, is it okay to feel sexual attraction towards real life girls? I know this sound stupid but let me explain. One of the purpose of NoFap is to think of girls as more than sex objects and I agree with that, that's what I'm starting to do. But I also want to have one nights in a couple weeks/months/years before I find a true girlfriend. I lack experience, you see, I'm still a virgin at 26 and I have so much to learn, so much time to catch up. I don't want to be with a girl and end looking as if I came from another planet... Is it okay to want some girls just for sex without seeing them all as sex objects? Finally, how am I supposed to find out my brain is completly recovered? I know this get asked pretty often but I saw so many different answers. 11 days, 30/40/60/90 days, 6 months, 9, 1-3 years, I realise it's different for everyone but is there a specific way to ''find out''? Thanks in advance!!