Hello All, I’ll try to be brief......... recently discovered communication between my boyfriend (age 63) and a prostitute including him “hosting” and a time. He said he was just “flirting” and never intended to meet. Then I discovered 3 more communications with TS prostitutes. I pushed him to tell me the truth ( or polygraph) and he admits to seeing TS prostitutes. He says 3 in last 2 years and 7-8 total since 2011. He claims he never was penetrated( but they tried once) and claims it was about oral. Admitted to him performing oral sex. After this discovery he claims” he is totally done with it and never thinks about it”. Also EVERY time we had ever had sex he has to rub his out dick frequently. ( I always thought that was odd)/ figured it was his age. My questions: 1. Is he definitely a PA as well as a sex addict( I never knew he even watched any porn!! 2. I assume one has to watch a lot of porn before getting to the point of going to a prostitute. So porn daily? 3. What do you think the real number of how many times he saw them?? 4. Is it even possible he didn’t have anal? 5. Will he alway crave this?? Or is he repulsed by it? 6. When he is rubbing his own dick during sex, is he wishing he was with a TS?? Thank you for all your help!!! Any advice on me getting him to open up to me? Quite guarded about it all. He is working with a life coach Thank you So Much!!!!