This topic is dedicated to the ones with HOCD too. I think this is something extremely overlooked and i can understand why, as it comes with a lot of potential shame attached to it. I am using terminology such as active/passive because sex/gender and gender roles kind of go out the window with gay/trans stuff. But at the end of the line one will generally pick a side and stick to it - that is being active or passive. Active means that one is the penetrator or the one being serviced, passive means that one is receiving or the one servicing (as in giving a blowjob). The passive one is more problematic because it comes with potential gender identity deconstruction. What i mean is that just saying "i am/was into trans/gay porn" is just the tip of the iceberg and the more pressing issue is "who i imagined myself to be when watching". I went ahead and watched trans porn just to check this further (i never watched this stuff before) and i did notice that a LOT of it is the man performing fellatio on the transgender and the men getting penetrated too. I was quite surprised because i thought it would not be THAT common. It is true that the reverse happened as well in some cases but i would say that overall the man was the passive one. I didn't have to watch the gay stuff because obviously there will be a passive man in that dynamic anyway. So if people can share their experience with this, i would appreciate it.