Quotes!

"Plans and ideas are important, but execution is the real game." - vicviking

 

"Be happy
Because happiness is the key to rebooting yourself. "

_Medishgrz

 

An amazing quote from @HopefulChristian to someone who considered going back to porn:

 

Good!

 

Rub your dick and you'll sink.

 

1 less day of no PMO and fantasising = 1 more day of happiness and hope for a better future!
-silenteagle

 

Winners never quit and Quitters never win

 

Do not quit even if you shit. ~vicviking

 

If you're not okay with being single/incel, you'll give of a desperate vibe that will make it less likely for you to get laid/get a partner.

And if you do get a partner, you'll be very vulnerable if you see her (or him) as the meaning of your life. Because if that's the case, you'll be devastated if you get dumped. I knew a guy who killed himself after being dumped by his girlfriend, and that is not uncommon.

Some "incels" feel inadequate. But Sir Isaac Newton (who lived 1642-1727) most likely died a virgin, and he was the greatest scientist of all time! Was he inadequate? Other lifelong virgins include Nikola Tesla, Dalai Lama and Jesus Christ.

You shouldn't be too attached to what you're getting from the world. Focus on what you can give to the world. Because then, you'll be in control of creating a rich and meaningful life.

You should still have interactions with women (or men). But do it to challenge social anxiety, practice social skills and to have fun in the moment. Don't be too attached to the outcome.

https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/you-need-to-be-okay-with-being-single-incel.104196/

 

When we're having unhelpful thoughts, we can recognize them as such, accept that they might pop up in the background, return our focus to the present moment and act in ways that align with our values.

A good way to determine what your core values are, is to imagine your funeral. What would you like to be remembered for then?

Living up to that as much as possible, is a good guide through life.

 

A moment can change your life or hamper it.So be alert,be aware!