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Random Girl call me "pretty boy" while walking around the streets

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by the J boy, May 6, 2016.

  1. the J boy

    the J boy Fapstronaut

    Hi everybody, I'd like to tell you a very curious anecdote that happened to me a few days ago.

    As you may know, I'm recently starting my journey to the abstinence and it was just at the day 5 of no PMO at all when this happened to me, it is very curious because this kind of stuff doesn't usually happen to me.

    I was walking down the streets comming back from the Gym, (the time when I look like Stronger due to the muscle bomb) When suddenly a group of girls appeared walking in the opposite direction, and one of the girls (the hotter one) screamed: "oh, You're such a pretty boy", and then she kept walking while the other girls was laughing at her like they were kind of ashamed.

    I did not know how to react Lol just keep walking till arrive to my house, I know this is not an actual "Success story" but is a curious anecdote I really wanted to tell.

    So I'd like to ask, do you think this happened as a result of my short period of abstinence? would it have something to do with the increase in my testosterone levels? What do you think?
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  2. Tayler32

    Tayler32 Fapstronaut

    ahhaahh that´s funny. Good for you
  3. Vincent Joy

    Vincent Joy Fapstronaut

    You're on your path, you are creating the live you want, that is masculine power. The feminine unconsciously is attracted to that at a deep routed core level of attractions. So hell yeas.
  4. Rikarwb

    Rikarwb Fapstronaut

    I'm going to give my honest opinion.

    The girl obviously said that because you had a muscular body and looked sexy.

    IF NoFapChallenge made you go to the gym ( or just go more often ), you can indirectly that "NoFapChallenge made a girl notice me"

    BUT If you think NoFapChallenge had nothing to do with your gym routine, in my opinion, it wouldn't change anything.

    I see people saying that after abstinance they say " girls notice me more". What i really think is that, since they are more aware, more confident ( because of no PMO ), they actually notice girls noticing them. Does that make sense ? XD Like, if the only thing i do is PMO, i would be probably ashamed of looking girls in the eyes, so i would show fear. BUT IF i don't PMO, i would be confident, look girls in the eyes, and notice how they look at me. They would have always noticed you, but now they could see a "new you" :D

    But in conclusion there are 2 possibilities ( in my opinion )

    - Did NoFap make you go to the gym more ? If so, NoFap ( indirectly ) made that girl "notice you"

    - Did NoFap had nothing to do with your gym routine ? I'm sorry, that girl just said that because of your powerful body :)
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  5. the J boy

    the J boy Fapstronaut

    Hahaha actually I've been in the gym for 2 years, and during that time with an appropiate workout routine, and a properly nutrition, I've built a very shaped body. so i assumed it's because of that stuff, but it is true also that i've been excercising with more energy since I quit porn. anyway, I'll keep doing nofap and noticing the benefits.
  6. It's probably because you're more confident in yourself now. I am convinced that girls are more attractive to the way a man carries himself than how he looks. Since you're feeling a sense of victory now that you've gone a few days without PMO, it's probably boosted your confidence in a small way. You may also be more confident because you feel like you have less to hide. Personally, I used to get hit on by women a ton (I'm not bragging). I frequently had women coming up to me asking me for my number, sometime they would ask me only a few minutes after they had just met me. However, a number of things have happened in my life (including a terrible relapse back into PMO), and I haven't caught a girl checking me out in months. I haven't been hit on in over a year, and it is because I have lost every ounce of the confidence I once had in myself. Confidence makes you far more noticeable to women, and even men will be more interested in hanging around you and talking to you (gay and straight).
  7. Nouvel Homme

    Nouvel Homme Fapstronaut

    I don't consider myself gay, but I think men are the shit. Anyway, I now get checked out by guys all the time. Nor am I scared to stare them in the face when they look. It feels so liberating. And the other day I could properly feel the man-crush vibes between me and this other guy. Any other men in the same position?
  8. programer

    programer Fapstronaut

    Absolutely yes. It is the Semen retention that made you attrective to girls. Abstaining from MO for 7 days increases testosterone for about 45%. May the force of Nofap keep you strong and In Eternal peace. Congrats for your streak!
  9. i might not sonsider myself male, but if I act like male, have male body, and look like male, then I'm male. You on the other hand are gay, why don't you consider gay if you like guys so much. You might be bi then if you're not exclusively gay :).

    btw the girls checing you out is good thing and yeah i doubt 5 days has something to do with it directly :)
  10. Nouvel Homme

    Nouvel Homme Fapstronaut

    I don't say I'm gay because I'm brosexual.

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