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Discussion in 'NoFap Technical Support and Feedback' started by MFCSteele, Mar 6, 2016.

  1. MFCSteele

    MFCSteele Fapstronaut

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    Does anyone else notice that when a guy posts on here he may get a few responses but when a lady does she'll get 40+?
    Guys, I think that some of us are being counterproductive with ourselves. Don't objectify women, treat men and women the same. So, if you're not going to post on a guys thing, why a womans?
    Is this a white knight thing? Swooping in to help her with her problem?
    I should probably be studying for my test tomorrow instead of procrastinating on here.
     
  2. Mr. Sir

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    Welcome to the internet, land of the beta males. How'd you do on that test?
     
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  3. Chef Boy

    Chef Boy Fapstronaut

    As much as people are going to ridicule you, I couldn't agree more. I think it could be explained by a lot of the men on here lacking female companionship irl and seeking such connections here (all be it virtually). It's not a problem and, if anything, it probably helps women feel welcome here (considering they are vastly outnumbered).
     
  4. Someone's gender shouldn't matter seeing there's little difference in the PMO issue. I understand that it's interesting for the website to keep track of user data but for us(the users) it shouldn't matter.
     
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  5. MFCSteele

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    If it doesn't matter what our gender is, why did it ask?

    I have no idea how i did on that test. Find out in a few months.
     
  6. Golgo 13

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    Feminism + white knights = 40+ responses haha

    However many of my post got 40+ responses too, I guess I post controversial topics.
     
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  7. Saskia

    Saskia Guest

    I agree there is a disparity in interest. I am a woman who has kept a journal both in the women's section and now in my age bracket. I prefer the latter. Yes, we are a small percent of the community, but the segregation makes us objects of curiosity. My journal there had about 13,000 views in 4 months. I've since deleted it. I don't know if it's a white knight thing, or just curiosity, or if people are trigger seeking or just wanting to relate to women in some way. But yes, there is definitely a difference.
     
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  8. MFCSteele

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    Some of the post by women i want to reply, then i see 400+ replys and decide no.
    It's like a social media post.
     
  9. Chef Boy

    Chef Boy Fapstronaut

    This has hit you hard...
     
  10. Jen@8675309

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    Sometimes I feel that being a woman on a porn recovery site can seem like a novelty for males. I think that might be part of it, it's something new and unexpected and therefore draws interest. I dunno, just kind of throwing stuff out there. I post in the women's section and primarily comment on women's journals. I feel I don't have a lot to contribute to a man's journey because it's so different than my own, but I suppose that doesn't really explain why so many men comment on women's posts. I certainly don't discourage men from talking with me or leaving messages.
     
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  11. Yeah, I've noticed this trend a bit as well. Perhaps there's some romantic curiosity there. But hey, some friendships may start that way and end up being so much more. I've had a couple friendships on here that have started with probably somewhat inappropriate intentions on the guy's part, but ended up being good for both of us in the long run. Ladies just need to be cautious sometimes, and everything will be fine. I know feminists would slaughter me for such a statement, but it's the world we live in.
     
  12. Star Lord

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    Most guys here are all pervs, that's why we are here after all lol
     
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  13. Golgo 13

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    Ur back?
     
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  14. Star Lord

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    Yeah, just as a reminder of what I want to achieve more than an integrating in the community, this time round.
    I'll be lurking more this time lol.
     

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