Hey, I am guy who has SSA. I have been like this as long as I can remember puberty sucker puching me in the gut. So I am a SSA guy, what do I do next? I come from a religious background, and I try to lead a so called quote "religious lifestyle". It tells you what not to do, but then you are left with so what do I do next? The options I am aware of is Singleness which basically involves Celibacy. For you guys that do not know this word it basically means lock mister or miss up forever because you aint never gone get none. Their is only so much I can fill my life with to endlessely keep myself too busy to realise that I am single for the long haul. Is anybody else aware of being SSA and not single.