Ready to Fight

Hi there! I'm 27 years old and living in Canada. Over the last few years, I've been really interested in the science and philosophy behind self-improvement techniques. Researching these topics has made me realize that there are things in my own life that I would like to improve.

I have been masturbating since I was 14 years old. It is definitely a problem for me; I feel like I very much lack self-control, not even just with masturbating but also with other areas of my life (eating sugary things, addicted to certain video games). I feel like a NoFap challenge will help instill the discipline in me that will help me more effectively achieve my goals.

Honestly, it feels awful to have been stuck in this vicious cycle for 13 years. Looking back, I can think of so many times where I could have gotten more done/been more productive and instead turned to masturbation to make myself feel better. Masturbation and pornography have always been "comfy" for me, but every time I finish I always feel a sense of disgust.

I really believe that engaging in a NoFap challenge can change my life. I think my masturbation has also impacted my mental perception of sexual relations with others (i.e. a lot of fantasizing and objectifying), so I hope to reboot and have a healthier approach to those around me.

My goal is to not PM for 90+ days, as my birthday is exactly three months from today. I am currently in a relationship and I don't want to cause difficulties for my partner; after the PM challenge I can reevaluate this goal accordingly.

Lastly, I would just say that one of my hobbies is mixed martial arts (muay thai and jiujitsu), so I will liken this to a fight. If I could get everyone's support in my corner, I would really appreciate that.

 

Hello and welcome!

We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | Forum Rules | Glossary

If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!