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StevenR

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I have used Tinder in the past and it seems somewhat trashy.

Does anyone know of a dating site that's oriented toward honest dating? I am looking for a serious relationship and not casual sex.
 
What is your region? Living in past in Europe, US and as well as Asia now each region is slightly differnet and some apps are more popular than the others.

In general I would say tinder (hookup), bumble (normal dating), Plenty of fish (serious dating, useful when older, marrying, kids soon).
That being said you will find all 3 categories in any app but ratio of people in those categories will be different based on app.

For example even Tinder allows you to select, if you are looking shortterm, shortterm open to long, longterm, longterm open to short, just new friends. Same you see what other person is looking for. I found this very convenient to weed out people I might not be interested and who are looking for something different than I.
 
CDFF is the ideal for you if you are Christian

Do not go there if you are not because they will know and will block you

Many women wants to settle down in CDFF, I met couple of women there on real but didn't work .

Not sure it didn't work because a woman have the 6th sense and she can feel the insecurities (Because of my P addiction) or because I have an accent

Anyhow you should try it if serious

No hookups there otherwise they will block you permanently
 
Tinder is hookup central, and trash (for the most part anyways).

Bumble can work, but also attracts hookup culture, and it's counter intuitive for many women as many find it difficult to make the first move (incidentally the only way you'll get to chat with them).

A guy I know who's pretty down to earth and has a good vibe about him recommended Hinge. You need to fill out your whole profile and have 6 photos to begin. That's way too much effort for the flaky or show off types. You're also limited to 10 'likes' per day. I haven't tried it yet (do I have 6 photos? yes, are they good? no) but it does sound like quality over quantity as far as dating apps goes!
 
No such thing as a real dating site. If dating sites were real, Facebook and Twitter would also be real places.
 
Successfull said:
Not sure it didn't work because a woman have the 6th sense and she can feel the insecurities (Because of my P addiction) or because I have an accent
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I am still unsure about wether or not the sixth sense thing is true or not. Because today at work, one of my managers who is a woman was concerned about the Monster drink I had and told me it would kill my heart (to be fair she is probably right.) and none of my managers (who are mostly women) have ever seemed to detect wether or not I struggle porn or not. So the reasons they haven't picked up signs I consider the following.
  1. I am a naturally hard worker and are actively choosing to overlook it.
  2. Because of Alexithyma (Intense difficulty expressing emotions) and I am often quiet too.
  3. The Sixth sense is a lie.
  4. The Sixth sense is real and they probably can discern how I am at work from what I do at home. And are probably realize that behind my lack of emotion and take pity on me because I feel quite shy and embarrassed when it comes to relationships and dating and don't care as long as I keep it in my bedroom and don't cause trouble for other co-workers.
 
If you're looking for a free, trusted Indian dating site, then you should definitely consider WOO. It's one of the most popular dating apps in India, with millions of users.
 
One app that I recently found and I did not run into any bots or spammers was called Hatch. You fill out some preliminary information about yourself, and you'll get 3 or 4 matches per day. You'll answer a basic question, like When you fly in a plane do you prefer the aisle or window seat? If you and your match have the same answer, you'll move onto a 2nd question. As you answer each question, you'll see a little more of their profile and their picture. After 3 or 4 questions, you'll be able to start sending them messages.
 
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No such thing as a real dating site. If dating sites were real, Facebook and Twitter would also be real places.
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This tends to be my feeling about these places. The "apps" are not designed for us to find love and connection - they are designed to keep us scrolling endlessly, that's how they get profitable - from our "engagement." They use the same algorithm style and techniques as P sites. Endless scrolling, the promise of "plenty" - lots of focus on looks and status, data tracking to manipulate our sexual and personal interests (which they sell to other companies), comparing with others to make us depressed (and scroll even more), lots of fake profiles / catfishing / bots to express interest in us when we tire, on and on and on...

To me, it's like asking if there's a bar that sells healthy alcohol. I just stay away from the bar, and drink fresh juice.

As an addict in addiction, I liked to find any excuse to not go outside and talk to people. If computers helped destroy me with my addiction to pixelated women, I don't think they are going to help me find love by looking at more pixelated women.
 
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