Really need advice...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Cody Kooyenga, Apr 25, 2016.

  1. Cody Kooyenga

    Cody Kooyenga Fapstronaut

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    So my girlfriends prom is in one month. Im still a virgin, I've been on and off with women wrestling cites and have masturated to them for awhile. (On and off since the 8th grade, longest ive went was 8 months but that's a whole different story.) I've been trying to do a NoFap, but after finally getting almost a week, I relapsed yesterday... problem is... her prom is one month away and we are going down the shore after for the weekend and we both want to have sex. im just scared ill lose and erection or wont be able to get it up. is it possible to get erections back in a month... and if so how.
     
  2. hej då

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    Yes of course it's possible.
    What do you think how?
     
  3. seth

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    Man, you should have all the motivation in the world. You're about to have sex for the first time. If you don't masturbate for a month, you'll be fine for your girlfriend's prom. Every time you're considering it, just imagine yourself about to have sex with your girlfriend and having a limp dick. Imagine the embarrassment! And realize that it is in YOUR FUCKING CONTROL!

    You can do this brah
     
  4. Cody Kooyenga

    Cody Kooyenga Fapstronaut

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    Seth that's already happened once that's why I'm scared to death of it happening again. The only thing is I read all these things about "losing liblo" and "erections gone until" and Than its like three months.... I don't plan on whackin it for the minto I just want to be able to make sure I can get one...
     
  5. Cody Kooyenga

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    I have no clue how...
     
  6. Faptomist

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    You shouldn't worry about it anyway because being nervous will probably be a more likely cause of not being able to get it up. just keep pushing forward without fapping and I'm sure you won't have a problem. Also realise that If you can't get it up its not the end of the world just explain it your girlfriend which i know will be hard as your worried about it but it needs to be done. She loves you so she should understand.
     
  7. Rav70

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    If your scared to death it will happen again then what other motivation could you need? Stop watching porn and MOing. Be a man and make love to your woman.
    That's your goal. Achieve it. You got this.
     
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  8. Cody Kooyenga

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    I plan on not pmo'ing for the whole month until it happens, all I want to know is it that is enough time
     
  9. seth

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    A shit ton can happen in one month. Read the success stories to see what I'm talking about.
     
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  10. Cody Kooyenga

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    I'm gonna give it my all of no porn, masturbation or orgasm until her prom. I've been on libido pills for a bit so those might help too. Confidence restored!!! I'm going to be able to go through with this and rewire in a month, I know I can :)
     
  11. MJ93

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    It's always possible to go one month without fapping before getting laid. Don't hesitate, man. Don't get scared. Just try to relax and do whatever to keep yourself away (and I mean away) from fapping, so that you can get ready for the prom next month.

    That's all I can say. I'm not really that great at giving out pro advices, but I hope this can help you. Good luck in your prom.
     
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  12. Cody Kooyenga

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    Unfortunately just relapsed :/ now I have exactly 1 month :/
     
  13. The Game Changer

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    One month is enough time to get a truly hard erection. I have been off PMO for a month and could really get some serious hard-ons. Sometime really feel like my pants would just get ripped.

    It is unfortunate that you relapsed Cody. Pull yourself up and try again bro. You truly quit this debilitating behaviour. We are together in this war.
     
  14. Cody Kooyenga

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    I'm just scared man ya know... I don't wanna go through losing an erection in front of my gf again
     
  15. Cody Kooyenga

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    So after a few days In I have noticed some huge changes :)

    Huge sex drive
    Many erections throughout the day
    Porn doesn't turn me on anymore
    Morning wood has returned
    Really happy
    Can get horney very quickly to my gf
     
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  16. Cody Kooyenga

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    As a quick update to everyone... unfortunatly after 12 days I relapsed. However. I no longer crave porn like I did, only my girlfriend and her body. My libido is very well actually morning wood is still good. Still gonna attempt sex after her prom in 14 days, though I'm actually very confident in the results. :)
     

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