Reason of masturbating(the main)

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Fen1x_, Jan 2, 2018.

  1. Fen1x_

    Fen1x_ Fapstronaut

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    There is one the most important reason of masturbating:
    Sexy girls and thinking about them.
    So every time when u see a nice girl with big breasts in internet for example,u want her and than u understand that u cant get her because u r a looser and so on and u masturbate.So i concluded one thing if u want to stop fapping u will have to stop watching porn and surfing in internet (because almost every add,video or photo have smth sexy to get your attention)better read a book or do smty useful

    I hope i was helpful for you
    Thx for reading and good luck
     
  2. Reverent

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    Super, thanks for the heads up.
     
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  3. Immature

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    To bad I can't give this post a "dislike".

    "u cant get her because u r a looser" - Nice. How very nice.
     
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  4. Themadfapper

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    The only thing being able to pick up women proves is that you can pick up women. What women think of you is no way to estimate yourself. I've found [ granted I've had the misfortune of being in some bad circles] women tend to romanticise some of the worst socially maladjusted morons, and only show interest in guys who act/dress/ or are part of a certain kind of culture. This often leads to guys acting out in ways that are not really them and behaving badly to impress women.

    I think women invented the term "loser" to manipulate men.
     
  5. Fen1x_

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    I didnt mean u r ,i meant u can think so
     
  6. Hitto

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    I honestly realize this and I'm at peace Lol it's funny though most of the people I've encountered while I was in my pmo state would assume I'm hooking up with mutiple women or always asked me how are you single yada yada now I realize people's perception of me is out of my control and it's a waste of time and energy there is nothing wrong with being misunderstood as far as the creep or loser label those are just words use to make other feel bad for not being the social norm of what others think is attractive and I'm realizing now society is pretty fucked up no one wants to be an individual so I could care less unless it's from my family or one of my good friends I don't take what anyone who doesn't know me says seriously or personally learning not to be offended is hard but it's worth practicing
     
  7. Abird

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    PMO makes it very easy. You can get every girl you want with a few clicks. No fear of rejection and no approach anxiety
     
  8. Fen1x_

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    No it makes it harder
    So when u look porn very very much you see woman like an object
    When you masturbate very very much you r depressed and not confident soo it doesnt make it easier
     
  9. I would say parents invented the term "loser" to manipulate their adolescent children. o_O But, yeah, adopted by women.
     
  10. Abird

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    I disagree with you. I have a group member that has a gf but every goodlooking he says: "OH i want to fuck her" which is seeing a woman as an object.
    Seeing woman as object isn't only porn thoughts. In porn a woman is an object, but if you adapt that view outside porn then you have a problem.

    I see porn and PMO as satisfying the sexual needs a person has. Porn makes this pretty easy as my previous post explains.
    I don't see woman as objects but as human beings that are superior. When approaching a girl you should never think of superior and that she is out of your league!

    So yea masturbate on porn can make you depressed as you don't talk with real girls, don't get the experience with it and it will result in not getting laid so you watch more porn (repeat this negative circle).
     
  11. kingpietro

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    I only use internet for e-mails now because of the many triggers
     
  12. MatthewGrün

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    Fen, you couldn’t be any more right. Is it normal not care if I never have an O again?

    I might add turning off sitcoms as well. I’ll give you an example of a popular tv how to turn off, The Big Bang Theory. That character Penny dresses like what you’re talking about Fen.

    When I began nofap I knew Hard Mode was for me. What I did not know, and slowing realizing now, is that I am going into Monk Mode. However, to me this is a lifestyle change and not really a mode.
     
  13. Faygal

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    The finals solution is to find a Marlene; every man should have one; who understands women better than a woman who lusts after women and doesn't hate men?
     
  14. Rainst0rm

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    I kinda agree with you cause, for me i talk to women pretty much. I can look at her say dangg look at her sexiness not IN A PORNO WAY. This is why "Masturbating" for a real woman is a little bit different then thinking about Porno thoughts. I don't have any social anxiety last time i went clubbing for example this woman just approached me who i have talked to just a few times, we started to dance etc. So it really depends imo..
     
  15. Abird

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    when i read that i was already thinking in a non porno way. I don't know what it is with guys and porno ways. I mean thinking about sex with a woman can also be in a NON porno way as we are animals and animals reproduce with sex. That's part of nature.
     
  16. Faygal

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    This is more degrading than outtakes from the "Closer" video. This all caps denial of the "porno way" makes you guys sound like John Wayne ( and not the one who killed with a six shooter). No wonder you have wimmin trouble (though to be fair, J.G reported a disturbing lack of E.D in the marital chamber).
     
  17. MatthewGrün

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    Men have women trouble for different reasons just like women have men troubles for different reasons. We all weren’t raised under the same circumstances and conditions.
     
  18. Faygal

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    Your historical material is impotent, a full Balsac must be honed above all.
     
  19. Rainst0rm

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    Well we all have our "Subjective" view when it comes to Porn. I mean is seeing a NAKED woman considered PORN? etc etc
     
  20. Faygal

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    yes Rainst0rm, the days of gentlemanly debauch await us. future zillionaires summoning the vital force to click out of their ascending windows of porn to finish those apps, do not forget-- throw open your houses of wholesome lechery to the world, like Hef not Harvey.
     

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