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Reasons to live.

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Infrasapiens, Nov 9, 2019.

  1. And? That's life. You don't want people to give you any religious advice, or say ,"Just stop to smell the roses" type thing. People can't waive a magic wand an give you the answer you're looking for, this is the internet. After all

    If you want people to just listen that's fine or are looking for a shoulder to cry on cool.

    But the way you've set this all up its not going to work. You shoot down everyone's advice, and like I said. On the internet we can't have a picture of what is actually going on in your life

    So now what? Do you just like to complain?
     
  2. Infrasapiens

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    Okay. You are right, I'm just complaining and not listening to anyone. I apologize.
     
  3. I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not.

    Anyways, if things are that bad in your life, people here have made some very good suggestions on how to fix it.

    Listen or don't but Life isn't gonna pause for you to make your mind up.
     
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  4. One more thing. Life has ups and downs. Just that yeah, in underground there's not much where to rise, but yet you have to dig up. Maybe yourr not far at all.
     
  5. Yeah fam, i know how you feel. I was super suicidal a lot of times during all those years, literally no motivation for anything. Life is painful, and shit is real unfair. That shit completely stands.

    But the thing is, i am sure that there are some things about yourself that you wish could be different. And im telling you that a lot of things can be changed for the better. You see, yeah, life is suffering and we all have shitton of problems and most of those problems we have aren't even our fault. But its our responsibility to take care and solve those problems.

    This exact thing as to why life is complete suffering can also be a beauty in it. Why am i saying such bs ? When you keep solving the problems in your life that you have, towards the better, you will develop and unlock way more potential for yourself, you'll find meaning, you will develop and find out something good about yourself. This is why you see the most of people who made it today, made it because they fought in real terrible and shitty situations and it made them grow and progress further.

    Perhaps all you need is to take the first step. Quit your porn addiction. This addiction pattern feels good in the moment, but eventually its full shit. Stop watching porn and stop masturbating, pour your max effort into this.

    We can't really give you reasons to live, you have to find them on your own this is all up to you. Perhaps this is what it is about, right ? Idk, i am just giving you advice its up to you to find out. Take responsibility for your own life and your own problems, this would be my best advice to you, you'll do yourself a favor.
     
  6. LEPAGE

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    Sometimes staying alive is just about telling those bastards "I'm still here!".
     
  7. Don't let the bastards get you down!!

    Life frequently kicks my ass. But you know what? Life is worth living everyday even if it is hell.

    Plus how would we know what hotsauce is?! Or tortillas?!!!
     
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  8. Beamer

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    Hello Infrasapiens,
    The links can be accessed from anywhere on a pc or cell phone, at least you can get in touch with someone to talk in difficult moments, at least think about it.

    You're right that bad things don't get good by discussing them, but try to stay positive no matter what, it really is very important, and it's not because things suck today, they will always be like that.
    Try to take your life in your own hands buddy, just don't give up, that will lead to nothing, you know that too.
    Don't give up hope now, just don't ok ?

    -Beamer
     
  9. Infrasapiens

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    I wasn't being sarcastic.


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    Thank you man, I really appreciate your comment. You are right. Also I was never a pornography addict, I joined because I was bored.

    Yes, living to disgrace the existance of those I hate. I like that.

    Phone signal where I live is a disaster, but I'll try my best to not do it.
     
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  11. Rex salazar

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    life shouldn't be enjoyable but suffice and at least it won't make you an addict or abuser
     
  12. Max666

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    Kung fu means 'discipline', not 'beat people up'. If it gives you confidence to face the world and meet other people then it can't be that bad especially if you meet a girl, also when you take a class of any kind you meet other people. People who take kung fu classes all share this common: they want more self-esteem. Why not surround yourself with the sort of people who want to improve themselves.
     
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    Firstly, it's good that you posted here.
    It means you have some reasons to live stored deep under.

    Do one thing, exercise. Talk with people.
    You will find out the reasons yourself.
     
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  14. Get_It

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    Today's generation is obsessed with being NEETs and Neckbeards. The Japanese call them Hickikomoris (sp?) I believe.

    Life is not going to be easy mode unless youre born into like the British royal family.
     
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    I have no reasons to live
     
  16. Infrasapiens

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    I cannot pay for classes as I said before, and I really would like to know how to beat people up.

    I suppose you are right.

    Not really. Life can be easier if you live in Not Here and are not a "NEET". You said you could go to a restaurant, and you are not a british royal family.

    Well, this thread is here for a reason.
     
  17. DerSchütze

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    Just a reminder to anyone feeling down, please don't kill yourself.
     
  18. I'm sorry to hear you're feeling this way :/

    I've felt this way before as well, several times throughout life. More lately than ever before. I'm not sure I would have gotten through those rough patches without God. But I will say one thing, if you are choosing to live, which clearly you are and that is the right choice, then you do yourself no favors by focusing so much on the negatives.

    And I really don't say that lightly. I'm not implying it's easy to change your mindset when you're in a position like this, but the thing is, you just have to. I was at a crossroads once, deciding between leaving a situation or sticking it out, even though it sucked at the time. I chose the latter, and the minute I made that choice, I told myself, "The grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence. The grass is green where you water it. So if you're going to stick around, with this crappy, brown, dried up grass, you'd better start watering it, because it's not going to get green again on its own."

    That grass can ALWAYS get greener. I say that with 100% confidence. There have been times in my life where I felt all was lost and was honestly, no joke, praying for death, because I just didn't know if I could take it anymore. And mere months later, I was telling my husband that I thought I was happier that day than I had ever been in my life. You really, truly never know what God is capable of, and where He might take you. Anything can happen. We get too caught up in picturing our own vision of the future, what will make us happy, and getting depressed that we don't think we will ever get there. And you know what? Maybe we won't. Maybe we will never get that job or that girlfriend or that (fill in the blank). But I've found that God always surprises me with what kind of joy I find in the most unlikely places, even without any of the things I thought I needed to be happy.

    Hang in there, man. Life is long, and it is ever changing. You will get through this. The grass can always get greener. But one thing you need to do is start watering it again, because letting yourself sink into this negative mindset isn't going to change anything. Sometimes we her blessed without our own effort, but even then, when we are stuck in this negative mindset, we don't even see those blessings. Flowers start springing up beneath our feet and we just trudge along, not even noticing, until they die off again. Fostering more positivity and focusing on at least one to three things per day you are grateful for, is a great way to start watering that grass. It WILL change things. I've never seen it not change things for the better, to be more positive and focus on the good rather than the bad.
     
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  19. Infrasapiens

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    My lawn actually died due to the lack of water but I think I see what you mean.
     
  20. @Infrasapiens

    In all seriousness I think you have the right temperament to be an amazing cartoonist. Especially if you could draw. I mean your wit is insanely funny and dead on.

    maybe create a profile on fiverr— you never know. It’s no harder than your quips are here ... think about it.
     
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