Reboot and Rejection

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Mixtec, Apr 7, 2018.

  1. Mixtec

    Mixtec Fapstronaut

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    I'm not sure if this is the right section for this but...

    I'm on my 9th day no pmo. Over the weekend, Easter Sunday, I met a beautiful girl at church. I got her number before we left. She sounded so interested in me or so I thought.

    Anyways, Monday I text her and get no response back. So I leave it alone. Then Saturday (today) comes along and I decide to give her a call in a last attempt effort. She picks up and says she is busy with her parents but says she'll call me back. She hasn't called back.

    I don't know if it's the rebooting process but I feel so damn anxious now. I mean I'm so sore from going hard in the gym I feel completely unmotivated trying to forget her.

    I can handle rejection normally but this time I'm so extremely anxious, hurt, and just want to get smoke some weed and turn to pmo. But I can't and I won't. Its part of the withdrawal symptoms...just needed to vent
     
  2. Player 1

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    PMO will be using the negativity, any weakness you're suffering from to give you any reason to relapse, you must not.
    Do you really want to waste 9 days of fight to feel even worst ?

    At least you tried and you should be proud of it. This is how you build an armor against regrets, by taking a lot of rejections on yourself.
    Stay up!
     
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  3. Mixtec

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    Thanks for the encouragement! I woke up this morning feeling so much better. 10 days in and haven't giving in.
     
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  4. Mixtec

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    11 days in today. I do not feel sad or anxious anymore. I do however feel extremely tired today. Like Im at work just ready to fall asleep.
     

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