Rebooting after a heartbreak

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by FranciscoThérèse, May 15, 2017.

  1. BornMale

    BornMale Fapstronaut

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    That is a nice taught to have.Thanks man. I do wish thinks would happen faster, as the feeling of the heart injury stings.
     
  2. Shreyrathod

    Shreyrathod Fapstronaut

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    Same bro.
    I am also going through heartbreak and it's makes me strong but sometimes urges on fires so I watch lots of NoFap videos and antiporn videos on YouTube and it's feel really incredible.
    And please install NoFap or stop masturbation app on your smartphone.
     
  3. Anonymous86

    Anonymous86 Fapstronaut

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    There's a NoFap app??
     
  4. Shreyrathod

    Shreyrathod Fapstronaut

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    I mean all the nofap related app like man don't fap or rebooting or rewire your brain or stop masturbation
     
  5. Despicable me

    Despicable me Fapstronaut

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    Me too, but it takes time. No quick fixes sadly.
     
  6. Shreyrathod

    Shreyrathod Fapstronaut

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    Yeah I am truly agree.but its give me strength
     
  7. BornMale

    BornMale Fapstronaut

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    My problem.is also that i don't have any urges...no libido..or motivation to search for a date.It really kills the confidence when there is no feeling in my pants.
     
  8. BornMale

    BornMale Fapstronaut

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    I was able to have passionate sex just with my girlfriend..but she left me..so this is where i am right now
     
  9. BornMale

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    I am starting to believe that noFAP is not working that good :(. My girlfriend break up with me ,2-3 months ago ( zero contact since one month and a half).I have 35 days monk mode. From the beginning I had no urges, no libido. I am going to gym 4 times a week.I am actually a fit guy.I have started to eat healthier, I am doing cold shower every morning ( and before sleep lately ). I had some minor mood swings. But now I just feel low. Not depressed but a little hopeless.I still think about my ex from time to time.Is this flatline ? How can it be from the beginning ?
    I think that I have low T , but I feel a little shame to go and take the test, because on the clinic's website says that this kind of tests are for older men ( > 50 ) or some serious motive.I am 33 and no illness.
    Does anyone else has the same symptoms. I am thinking that I wasn't actually an addicted. But i do know for sure that I had PIED (loosing it all the time with a condom), and I have been MO for more then 15 years.
     
  10. Aaronbus

    Aaronbus New Fapstronaut

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    how is it bro
     
  11. i came out of the other side bro. but that abandonment left a scar that is in my soul. made me very cynical, numb. i was hopeful and naive before he broke me. took me a year to be fine with it. but this heartbreak also forced me to deal with myself and start my first long-term reboot. now i recently reached 3 years of sobriety (i am an ex s. addict and p. addict). i am a woman btw

    btw he also came back to me briefly 3 years later and i obviously took him back for him leaving me again blocking me and unblocking after having slept with me few times. i last texted him about 2 months because i needed to talk with someone that knew me. he blocked me after he told me he could not see me because he was with someone. unfortunately he knew eveything about me. i blocked him back and it is done this time. everytime we communicate he creates a storm within me, he makes me unstable and still craving him because when i reconnected with him i didn't have that scar in my soul anymore but i still have that scar and he abandoned me and never liked me.

    i used to think he felt home for me. i sometimes told him he was the only one for me and there was a period in which i actually believed it. lately i have come to the realization that he clearly never cared or even liked me, just my phyisucal appearance. he was also an addiction for me while i was full on addict. when i saw him again after being sober for 2 years s. with him did not excite me, i was dry. i was mostly curious if some differences would have arisen and yes. me and him was so pointless, so much a waste of my time. i wished i never met him. he knew he hurt me and still did it at every occasion

    i believe he liked making me suffer, having that power over me and that's disgusting. i see everything with no disillusionment now. took me a while to accept what it actually was. he was the last guy i have been with after he briefly came back to me. since then i promised myself to not get involved with any guy that is or with any red flag. since i am sober i can think before i act. while being an addict i wanted to make wise choices buy i felt chained by my own addictions. in the end i don't think i ever loved him. i think i was morbidly attached to him because he was the guy with whom i learnt s. (i had the chance to practice it a year, i was comfortable with him s. fully) and was my only "long" attempt of a relationship

    i am a weird type of s. addict that i cannot not feel attached after having s. but even kissing i wouldn't kiss a guy once. that is not my style. i want bonding but i am scared of it at the same time. that is the kind of recovering addict i am. if you want you can send me a private message if you need support
     

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