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Rebooting After a Month break After a 219 day Streak

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by DannyCool, Nov 27, 2015.

  1. Nov 27, 2015 #1
    DannyCool

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    I have taken a month break after a 219 day streak on hard mode where I have messed around a bit with Taoism. I am back to do the real deal which I consider to be the NoFap method with no edging. This time I am ready to tackle fantasies and urges before they get me. I am declaring war on my urges.
     
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  2. Nov 27, 2015 #2
    SolidStance

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    GO GO GO
     
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  3. Nov 27, 2015 #3
    DannyCool

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    Thanks man brothers in arms against the ego lets win this war together :)
     
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  4. Nov 27, 2015 #4
    nfprogress

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    Welcome back. I am interested in your efforts to avoid edging and fantasy. My current hardmode reboot has been completed without any form of edging and I believe it was the best course of action. I wish I could say the same about fantasy. Much (unnecessary) struggle I caused myself by allowing fantasy. Out of curiosity, what have you learned from Taoism that will help you in your current journey?
     
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  5. Nov 27, 2015 #5
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    I don't understand why you would choose to take a month off after 7 months of hard mode. During your break, were you edging and watching porn? If so, to what end?
     
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  6. Nov 27, 2015 #6
    DannyCool

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    I did not watch porn but I did edge in order to become comfortable with my urges. In Taoism semen retention is emphasised so I have not lost semen. I did a little fantasy but not much mostly just working with the energy and desire. Bringing down the urge with physical methods first and then after a while with my mind. Now I hope to catch the urge before it catches me so like you have suggested to me before I am going to give up everything but without having to go through urges like I used to. I want to catch them at the start and go back to my happy mind. I was practicing this with the Taoism which I could not do on my last streak. This is going to be difficult but I am up for the challenge.
     
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  7. Nov 27, 2015 #7
    DannyCool

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    I do not recommend edging as it will lead to relapse, objectification of women and endless suffering. My opinion is that we can work with the urges in a more skilful way. It is to be aware of the slightest fantasy developing. When the thought "I want someone or something" and it is connected with the feeling of semen then it needs to felt as suffering and drop it in whatever way you know how.
     
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  8. Nov 28, 2015 #8
    programer

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    Hmmnn. Am on day 219 and I don't have any urges. All I need never to engage in Pmo is to Just remember the Priceless things I lost to Pmo. I once hade a Cute girlfriend. She was so pretty but she quickly flew away due to my Incredible Wiredness.

    I was so shy around her. Extremely shy. L guese I loved her too much. It has been over 6 months since she left! Since I knew that all yhis Misfortunes were caused by Pmo, I have Combated this Demon Of Pmo.

    We can win this addiction because God can not allow a storm to attack you and does not give you the power to win it.
    Gud luck everyone.
     
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  9. Nov 28, 2015 #9
    DannyCool

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    I still had urges even though I had done 6 months hard mode. Going to the city and meeting girls would set me off big time in fact I would be going crazy for them. I feel with this next streak I can overcome objectification. Well done on all your work guys it is fantastic. I hope that I can work better with my urges this time round. Any ideas?
     
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  10. Dec 5, 2015 #10
    DannyCool

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    I have made a week. I am happy. I did have one longish fantasy though the rest I caught in time...
     
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  11. Dec 27, 2015 #11
    Selfdiscovery

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    Hi just to drop a text and say hi....hope you are doing all right.Breaks are all right by anything if felt vulnerable can lead to on same habit...so be watchy/careful!
     
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