Rebooting in new marriage.

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by damelendez, Jun 7, 2020.

  1. damelendez

    damelendez New Fapstronaut

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    I think being addicted to porn which has led to other porn, has def. negatively affect my new marriage life. I feel that my erection can come and go in an instance. My wife is pretty, but can’t keep an erection or get an erection. It’s really discouraging. And I’m sure it is for her. How long will this last? Is there anything to change it? It’s been about 2 weeks since I looked at porn.
     
  2. damelendez

    damelendez New Fapstronaut

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    Hoping that God forgives me, and brings healing
     
  3. dandausa

    dandausa Fapstronaut

    He does. Jesus forgives and loves you better than any of us ever will! Keep going brother. I love you!

    In terms of ED, I think it's just a process. Some guys it takes longer than others. I've seen stories of 30 days - 90 days - 8 months and I'm sure some people it takes longer. We've taught our brains to get aroused by porn/our genre of porn/p-subs for such a long time it just takes time to get turned on in a healthier way.
     
  4. PaulPaul

    PaulPaul Fapstronaut

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    It takes a long time. Say a year to beat the addiction (no urge to watch p) and two years to recover (forget p and build a happy life). But this varies wildly from person to person.
    Don't let this long period discourage you. Recovery can be rough but overall it's a positive and happy period. You see things getting better every day.
     

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