I personally agree with this. Of course, in the end it is up to you. But for me, yeah I agree with Buzz Lightyear here. I feel that I don't GET intimacy from masturbation and I DO from sex and - as difficult as it is!!!!!! - I'd rather save my orgasms to share them WITH another person. And someone who can hold me, and I can hold them, we can talk, have a laugh, kiss etc. YMMV but THAT is how I personally feel about it now.