REBOOTING IS USELESS - 90 days reboot result -

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Fap_the_Fap, Apr 18, 2017.

  1. Tesslynne

    Tesslynne Guest

    I personally agree with this.
    Of course, in the end it is up to you. But for me, yeah I agree with Buzz Lightyear here.
    I feel that I don't GET intimacy from masturbation and I DO from sex and - as difficult as it is!!!!!! - I'd rather save my orgasms to share them WITH another person. And someone who can hold me, and I can hold them, we can talk, have a laugh, kiss etc. YMMV but THAT is how I personally feel about it now.
     
  2. Tesslynne

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    It honestly MAY do, at least, from what I have read. For some guys on here (I wish I knew about the women, but hey!) yeah sticking to NoFap DID give them the confidence and also more opportunities to meet women (or men, if that's what you're into) because you're not wasting so much time fapping!
     
  3. Will_power_now

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    maybe your body is telling you to go find a girlfriend. until then, don't fap or you will again feel bad.
     
  4. Runtilmylegsdropoff

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    The whole point is to no longer be a wanker with brain fog. Instead of beating off, have a wife to have sex with.
     
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  5. Ghost_Rider

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    NoFap ain't useless, some people just need more time to heal, maybe you need more time than others to heal.
    Just hang in there bro, you'll be fine :)
     
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  6. Calculas

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    Yup. Anyways No one is talking to u. Get aside :)
     
  7. Happy Man

    Happy Man Fapstronaut

    You should never test with M.

    Only test with a girls who wants to have sex
     
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  8. Fap_Doc

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    But plzzz talk to me :( what would I do with my empty life if you don't
     
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  9. steven968

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    Whatever you feel after 90 days, whether feeling good or not, we know deep in our heart that porn is bad; it's twisted and it's not healthy. Nofap is about giving you the energy and confidence to fix your problem and improving your life. The superpowers just come naturally.
     
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  10. Wanker

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    as far as im aware energy wise, you get over your orgasm hangover after 17 days, getting off porn and fap life time though will help you meet girls....
     
  11. t8031t

    t8031t Fapstronaut

    IT IS ABOUT GETTING IN A STATE OF FREEDOM. FREEDOM TO HAVE SEX OR NOT, SEX SHOULD NOT BE COMPULSIVE , TO HAVE A OPTION TO CHOOSE IS FREEDOM, TO END THE SLAVERY FOR SEX
     
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  12. I agree, life goals are important, but you are essentially inferring that Nofap is useless. The discipline it takes to not PM is growth itself. No addiction is good, and most addictions last a life time.
     
  13. By the way, I CHOOSE to spend my time on these forums, among other things. That is the difference. I want to see people beat this addiction.
     
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  14. Buzz Lightyear

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    Well, some of us are effectively in 'monk mode' through no choice of our own.

    I find you become ambivalent toward sex; you think it would be nice if you found it, that is, as a meaningful expression with a worthy partner, but you can do without it all the same.
     
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  15. PIED_cream

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    You should have sex with a girl and see if you can perform without getting ED (no pills) I bet you can now, congrats. I masterbate all the time until recently and I've never had sweats and anxiety, sounds like alcohol withdrawal. Anyways who cares if you sweat a lot the real reason IMO that rebooting is important is so when your with a sexy lady your penis works, cause let me tell you it's very upsetting when it doesn't. That's why I will never again use porn and I am starting my reboot ASAP. Rewire.
     
  16. Kevmart87

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    Some of these recommendations are rediculous.

    Let's be real this NoFap shit has potential but it's limited. It worked when I had delayed ejaculations and lost erections while having sex with my wife, who at the time was my new girlfriend. She told me take a break from masterbation. I stopped PMO for
    14 days and on day 15 I went over and she to this day made ejaculate harder and more then any other time in my life. After that our sex life was grealty improved.

    1) Keep abstaining from PMO if your on the prowl for a relationship, it will probably help get you out the house and give you more
    courage around women you like.

    2) Keep abstaining from PMO if you have a girl and find you have some ED issues, if PMO doesn't help you may want to consult your doctor.

    My pops gave me half a V-pull when I was having ED with my girl back then. I had a piece of steel between my legs for 40ish mins. She loved it. Only experience, worth trying.

    3) Keep abstaining from PMO if your still battling porn addiction. If you still feel porn is responsible for some fetish you feel really isn't you.

    If I abstained from PMO for 90 days and still had fantasies about Tgirls... I guess I just actually like Tgirls. Cool with me, I'll accept it.

    (For those wondering I abstained from PM, when I was just starting to date my wife. After about 60ish days I pulled my phone out and start looking at Tgirls again. Was guilty for like a day and then never again, 7 years)

    4) If your just chilling at home single and don't care to find someone or are married and are happy with your sexlife or maybe you like your porn fetish but are just afraid of labels, then I say fuck it. Enjoy your short life. Your 28, full of testosterone and have an active libido enjoy your body, you won't have it forever.

    You want to listen to these other dudes and quit PMO for 12-18 months good luck. I hope you cure cancer or make millions because then your personal suffering is worth it.

    I've been doing PMO before NoFap was a thing. Has its uses but people act like it's going to cure all your problems. I feel it's has good therapeutic purpose if done occasionally.

    Sidebar: Bet that O was freaking amazing. Another benefit from the occasional short term PMO.
     
  17. Cax

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    90 days is a baseline place to start, not the magical cure number.
     

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