Hey guys fist post but not my first attempt at nofap .I've been trying to quit the stuff for over a year now, with my longest stretch being about two weeks (second time I've achieved this stretch was today until relapse). The ED has never been that much of a problem (the odd stretch here and there but I also have anxiety issues relating to non-porn induced HOCD since i was 14) until recently and I have been unable to become erect in 3 weeks (to porn or otherwise and during this time still PMO whilst unable to get hard *will be seeing a doctor soon). ok to the point I've been with my GF for 4 years now and I've finally opened up to her about nofap, shes ok with normal mode but says I have to use the blue pills (which works btw) until this is cleared up, consensus is that this is unwise, due to potential psychological dependence but she wont budge on this demand, shes also quite selfish in the bedroom and unwilling to physically stimulate me herself (i've gotta do the work for both of us but i'm usually ok with this) and will usually quit in frustration if i'm not at full mast when shes ready. What should I do as shes made it clear shes unhappy about the idea of not having the physical aspects of a relationship (you know added more pressure to the situation) and all honesty this woman is the love of my life and i don't want to lose her but i'd like active consensus instead of my usual lurking. any advice you guys could give would be welcome!!