Rebooting while building up long-distance relationship

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Mikuh, May 26, 2020.

  1. Mikuh

    Mikuh New Fapstronaut

    Hey guys.

    Forgive me for english, I am Danish so it may not be the best!

    Lately I am dating this amazing girl, we have great chemistry, we find each other super attractive, we have similarities and differences, plus we can communicate really well about Rebooting / Abstaining from P.

    Lately, the past 2-3 days I have been feeling really low tho, and my self-esteem has really not being doing the greatest lately.
    We talk about it, and she tells me that she doesn't understand where the "drop" comes from, and neither do I.

    She is really my dream girl, so I really think a lot about her and I.
    Don't get me wrong, I am very confident when it comes to work, university etc.
    But ever since I started this NoFap journey, I really felt a huge drop in a my confidence when it comes to girls.
    I find myself sometime explaining stuff like: "I may not be the best or worst"

    I don't understand ...

    Anyone ever encountered this before?
  2. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

    It could be the flatline. No matter what, keep it to yourself or to your male friends. Woman love a confident man that have his shit toghether. Showing her lack of confidence and that you are damaged from porn is going to turn her off. Be really carefull about it.

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