Long story short I joined awhile ago, then went on a major relapse for years. I was too weak to quit apparently. The issue I think was it didn’t impact me with my wife that much. Don’t get me wrong it did from time to time, but I was successful enough to not take this seriously and in hindsight I regret it tremendously. My wife and I ended up having a wonderful daughter and the goal was to have a second kid when she was two! But my relapse was so bad and I was doing it so often especially after the first kiddo was born, that now I just can’t do anything with my wife. It’s like my interest in her sexually is nonexistent now. I love her tremendously but I just can’t finish or stay hard. My daughter is almost three now and we missed the mark because of my addiction. And as time keeps pressing on my stress and anxiety and pressure to perform is getting exponentially harder. Especially after having a reset with porn today (relapse?) Its getting more and more depressing. So is it even possible that I work on a reboot and try and have a kid? Is there anything I can do to be successful in both baby making and rebooting at the same time? The biggest concern is making a baby for us.