Recovering alcoholic and cuckold fetishist

Ive quit drinking and tobacco and pot for about a month and a half. Before my gf and i broke up to my exessive drinking we were pursuing a cuckold fantasy together. In my newfound clarity ive discovered i have trouble maintaining an erection with anybody but her. She knows all my kinks and my buttons. My new gf doesnt mind my sub preferences but i can tell its not her thing. And i need to learn to be a man in the bedroom again. I never had a problem with erections before i quit drinking. I thought quitting would help my performance. Looks like ive got more work than i thought.

 

2 months of sobriety on saturday. Ive completed 11 of 12 steps. Spiritually i feel good and solid. Ive stopped masturbation and porn since ive joined here. I havnt tried a reboot per my sponsors advice that i complete all 12 before i take on any major changes. All in all i feel better i still have sex and my erections are improving. Maybe i can put this behind me.