Rejected and trying not to relapse

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Uphillbattles

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Hey all,
I am only 8 days into my current reboot. I have done a full 90+ days before but since I didn't have any outlet, I just reverted back to porn and sank deeper.
Now, there are multiple women at my work that flirt with me. Also, several gay guys. I really like the one girl and she has been trying to get my attention for months now. So, today I gave her my number (which she texted right away). I asked her how her day was going (we work in different departments) and she said good and asked me about mine. I responded that it was good and told her my schedule and asked her about hers (rizz king over here, I know). Anyway, she never responded and now I'm home.
I hit the flatline about two days ago (fast this time), so, my dick is ice cold and shriveled, my confidence has just been shattered (to be fair, i thought that someone that had a crush on me for 8 months would go more than two texts), and my depression is exploding now.
How do you deal with this. Should I just go talk to the next one?
P.s. I know I am 35 but I haven't dated or had sex for 8 years at this point because of porn and I was homeschooled, so I don't even have basic socialskills.
 
Uphillbattles said:
Hey all,
I am only 8 days into my current reboot. I have done a full 90+ days before but since I didn't have any outlet, I just reverted back to porn and sank deeper.
Now, there are multiple women at my work that flirt with me. Also, several gay guys. I really like the one girl and she has been trying to get my attention for months now. So, today I gave her my number (which she texted right away). I asked her how her day was going (we work in different departments) and she said good and asked me about mine. I responded that it was good and told her my schedule and asked her about hers (rizz king over here, I know). Anyway, she never responded and now I'm home.
I hit the flatline about two days ago (fast this time), so, my dick is ice cold and shriveled, my confidence has just been shattered (to be fair, i thought that someone that had a crush on me for 8 months would go more than two texts), and my depression is exploding now.
How do you deal with this. Should I just go talk to the next one?
P.s. I know I am 35 but I haven't dated or had sex for 8 years at this point because of porn and I was homeschooled, so I don't even have basic socialskills.
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Some people don't like having texting pals and just want to text to meet up to have sex. I take that back. I don't know anyone who wants texting pals.
 
Jerry2Rick said:
Some people don't like having texting pals and just want to text to meet up to have sex. I take that back. I don't know anyone who wants texting pals.
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Well, update, I texted "damn, two texts and done? Cool. Fuck you too" she responded with lol and we had a convo. I bailed on her, said I was done talking. Then called her and explained all about NoFap and PIED. Now, I have two dates scheduled this week with her.
Only thing I learned from this: Have abs and work out. It will help you a lot. I think I might be feeling a little too good right now, lol.
 
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