Rejection

Once you stop fapping you lose the shame from fapping you get clarity and awareness apart of having awareness is realizing that your thoughts of things that have happened or haven't happen once you realize that it is your job to be in the present moment do all the things you thought you couldn't try new things and you will steadily gain confidence this doesn't happen over night I'm still working on it too after 7 months streak good luck you are not alone

 

Well while on NoFap I just started trying to learn new things like for instance I started learning how to cook things while on top of that I tried to read more and started writing down my thoughts each day to log my thoughts I also strengthened my relationship with god just think of the reasons why you want o quit and keep a list of goals and then stick to them I stopped watching porn and fapping because of Ed and I started getting into transwoman porn and I knew I was never attracted to any trans woman ever before excessive porn use while fapping to this porn huger feelings of guilt came and I started to end the cycle now I feel a lot more confident because I'm investing in myself I now longer feel shameful as far as girls I'm still learning about them and how to interact them but now I'm not obsessed with the outcome because I'm focused on my self improvement and how I can bring value to society or joy to the world instead of being concerned on how much sex I'm having I'm also less critical of myself when I try new things and take life a lot less seriously and girls notice you smiling being yourself projecting confidence

 

Do yourself a favour and start here:

watch couple of videos and than go out and try to talk with girls,thats the most important thing.
look for facebook group in your city " rsd inner cirdle-your city" and join it, there you will find people who are like minded and also wanna go out and talk to girls.
You wont believe where you can get.

 

Yeah if you watch a lot of YouTube like me maybe you can look to start watching more educational videos about nofap benefits, confidence, girls etc.

 

Rejection is part of the game. Think of it this way you might be attracted to someone but they might not be compatible for you. I been rejected many times I only started dating when I was 23 and looking back I realized that person wasn't the one for me. Ultimately, it comes down to confidence if you are confident girls will see that and it will be easier to even develop a friendship with the opposite sex. The longer you do noFap the more your self control and confidence will go up and in turn you won't be as afraid of being rejected because you have self worth and you know what your value is.

 

The only thing to fear is fear itself. Fear is a tool and IMO you need to face your fear of rejection by simply trying and seeing how things go.

I realize that is easier said than done because there are fears I have had to face head on in order to get past them.

Rejection isn't easy to accept but trust me you don't want to end up waiting so long due to fear that it's too late to try.

One thing I have learned is that the more you fear something the more likely you will make that fear come true.

Good Luck!