Relapse and girlfriend fapping for me

okay guys so Thursday July 27,2017 iFinally made is 22 days in until iRelapsed. Going to start over a clean slate for August 1st. And trust me this is going to be a big accomplishment when iFinally pull this off because I've been watching porn and fapping for about a decade now. Prettysure minimum iWent was 2-3 a month. And last couple years I've done even like 2-3 in one somedays lol ‍♂️. But anyways I had a question. what if my girlfriendfapped for me, would that still be defeating the whole purpose? Sounds like it would be, just want to confirm becuase iAm going to pull this off the right way. Because we ain't really suppose to be having sex like that anyways, for reasons, celebate. but we do oral sometimes to each other and fap for one and other. But if it ain't right let me know so I can cut it off. Thanks inadvance