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Relapse is happiness

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by modern milarepa, Apr 18, 2021.

  1. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Counter:352 days no PMO, semen retention

    I never felt anything after a relapse I only kept going. What was the point of feeling bad about it. Life will still be hard if I relapse.

    I see here in this site many guys who simply are too emotional, they can not control their emotions and link somehow this emotional imbalance to masturbation.

    And you know who is emotional? GIRLS
    It doesn't look so cute in us.

    Why don't you try just to keep going after a relapse don't think about it.
    2. Also, don't be so emotional dude.
  2. iLoveRain

    iLoveRain Fapstronaut

    Yeah. Less emotions = more man.
  3. Emotions are okay. Don't surpress them, but yes - there are moments when it's just stupid to be emotional. It's okay to cry, it's okay to be angry but it's not okay to ruin someones day because of your emotions, it's not cool to act like a spoiled child or just let emotions rule you.
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  4. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    I also think being constantly searching happiness, pleasure and avoiding pain is a form of emotional weakness.

    Hedonism is an emotional imbalance
  5. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Don't supress emotions of course, they make you a functional human but don't identify with every emotion that cross your mind, that is just suffering and madness.
  6. I disagree strongly. It is first time in my life I realised the positive "force" of the semen, that too only in a seven days' streak. I think it is very costly stuff and must be preserved. So if I relapse, I am bound to rue myself and feel the absence of that force in my body. It is certainly not nice.
  7. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    You disagree with what exactly @Fallen Angel Moopi
  8. fellas, is it gay to have emotions?
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  9. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    If you cry everyday looking at the sunset, then yes.

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  10. Mahalac

    Mahalac Fapstronaut

    I couldn't agree more bro. If you relapse from PMO just man it up, don't cry or think about it and start again.
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  11. This.
  12. No probably. But being enchanted or seduced by them doesn't really suit us. It is a waste of time! I think.
  13. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    OK @Fallen Angel Moopi I don't see the point of feeling bad about a relapse. It's like being in war and your dearest friend just died next to you because of enemy force. If you start crying in the middle of the field you are probably going to die too. You sure can feel bad, but don't over cling to the feeling and start feeling sorry for yourself. That is my point. Life is a battle we must keep going
    Last edited: Apr 18, 2021
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  14. cresyhorse

    cresyhorse Fapstronaut

    of course, everytine you feel happy or sad just put out a cigarette in your arm. thats how to stop being gay.
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  15. theMotivator

    theMotivator Fapstronaut

    If you just go on without killing yourself about relapsing, you have a lot more chance to succeed in nofap. You have to not care so much, that you will start feeling guilty about not feeling guilty of doing it. And then just analyze and learn from errors how to beat the addiction next time. The more depression, the bigger chance to relapse again.
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  16. Mahalac

    Mahalac Fapstronaut

    Every time I relapse I learn new thing. Last time I relapsed I clearly saw some kind of sadness, low energy and depression in the eyes of my "favorite" pornstars. That is all fake brothers, those people are in great dilusion and some of them are aware of that.
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  17. cresyhorse

    cresyhorse Fapstronaut

    They really are tortured souls..
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  18. ǤƝªƦŁy

    ǤƝªƦŁy Fapstronaut

    Ironicly enough, there was a time when gay was only defined as an emotion.
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  19. From time to time, I did examine the facial expressions of those taking part in the scenes, to see if I could notice any signs of discomfort or lack of enjoyment. To tell you the truth, I did notice that several times.

    The worse thing is, as I'm typing this, I realised I just changed video and watched another scene. I numbed out my sorrow for the actresses by just masturbating to something else. Absolutely disgusting.
  20. thabtua

    thabtua Fapstronaut


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