Relapse

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Help14, Apr 23, 2020.

  1. Help14

    Help14 New Fapstronaut

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    Relapse After 50 days is all lost?
     
  2. MMA lover

    MMA lover Fapstronaut

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    NO
    its not lost.
    Starting again is always a choice and you can have it.dont give up on it.nothing is parmanent and you can change things
    You are human,human is allways making mistakes.the important thing is to not do a mistake twice
    Stay strong
     
  3. Help14

    Help14 New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the positive words. But it is gunna setback my PIED?
     
  4. MMA lover

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    Think like you never have found nofap.
    You were still watching porn and even that 50 days that you were clean by nofap,you were faping.

    So be positive.i mean,if it works for the first time for PIED then second time will work to!!

    Dont think about it.its an obsession.fight with it and go for another streak and you will be fine
     
  5. James2James

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    Absolutely not. Why would it be??? Fifty days clean and one dirty....how is that still not a great result??

    Think of it this way - - - you do 50 or 100 or 500 days (whatever the number is) and you stumble....and then you say to yourself, "Well..that's it. All over. Back to porn".

    Seriously? You'd think like that?

    Of course not. You keep going because you've built up some nice momentum. All is certainly not lost. However, be careful of the "Chaser Effect" at this point.
     
  6. James2James

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    It will only if you let it. Keep going. You'll be fine. This isn't a sprint..it's a marathon..a way of life. Just because you have a small falter, you don't change the way of life. Stay positive. Your brain can do wonderful things when you focus and stay positive. BUT, if you put in your head..."Is this gonna effect me???" you'll dwell on it. Let it go. Continue. You're fine.

    Your brain doesn't know "a number". It does what it does. What do I mean? This - is PIED "cured" by 30 days? 50 days? 100 days??? What is the number? There isn't A NUMBER. The brains heals when it heals. It doesn't understand a NUMBER. So don't judge your triumphs and your mishaps using solely NUMBERS.

    It's exactly IMO like when you life weights. Your body doesn't understand what 100 pounds is. Or 50. It feels weight and tension, but it doesn't know it as a number.

    You stumbled. Who cares if it's at 50 or whatever? Keep going. You'll be fine. It's JUST a number. In the BIG picture, that number doesn't mean much. You're looking to heal, not have a number on a plaque.
     
  7. Help14

    Help14 New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for that speech it made me feel better. I’m determined to cure this addiction and cure my pied and I’m gonna keep fighting and not bet my self up for this relapse. Everybody makes mistakes. Thank you!
     

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