Relapsed after a 45 day streak and binging from more than a week!

programer · Nov 8, 2015

V_freedom said: ↑

Thanks! I read your post. It's inspiring. Amazing achievement. Keep it up! Stay strong. Keep motivating newcomers.
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You are Most welcomed.

V_freedom · Nov 8, 2015

SnowWhite said: ↑

Yes but I can fully understand that.

Women often become so-called "Co-Addicts", which means that they are backing up the addicted partner and sacrificing their own life.

There are 3 possiblities how such a relationships develops:

1. Both stay together, in a mixture of happynes and unhappyness. He is sacricing his life to the addiction, she is sacrificing her life to him.
2. Both work on themselves and make real progress.
3. She leaves him and never looks back. Both are continuining on their own separate way.

In fact, if a woman is stable, then she wants a stable partner and doesn't want to be the mommy of an adult man.

I give you the advice to grow up and take responsibility for your life. You will see how you grow and how you become stable.
Then, new options will come into your life.

EDIT: 45 days are extremely good! Congratulitions! Remember back the time when you accomplished this and how good you felt. Focus on doing fulfilling things, and then you will soon get into a new streak again!
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Ya! Its true. I was literally like her baby.. its true and the most embarrassing thing now! I feel ashamed and regret it. I've screwed up things my entire life the same way.... dissapointed.

I'm Spiderman · Nov 8, 2015

I highly recommend you to join a group of AP.

SnowWhite · Nov 8, 2015

V_freedom said: ↑

Ya! Its true. I was literally like her baby.. its true and the most embarrassing thing now! I feel ashamed and regret it. I've screwed up things my entire life the same way.... dissapointed.
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It's good that you understand! But shame and regret is not necessary!
In fact, shame and regret are making you small, crippled and going bowed; it is a contradiction to stability and growth.

I am even sure that shame is in fact the root of the addiction. Instead of openly living our sexuality, which is a core of our nature, we are ashamed of it, cannot talk about it and live it in the hidden - in front of screens, in sex parlours, in secret sex affairs etc.

taqwa · Nov 8, 2015

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Same story dude. When Pmo came into my life, I lost everything. My girlfriend left me due to my Incredible wiredness.

All that Shit is now long gone. Am on day 199! Check my thread "celebrating 180 days of rebooting." You can do this!!!!!
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Awesome work brother! What an inspiration. You are a true flag holder! I hope to join you soon. Stay strong! Don't let your guard down.

taqwa · Nov 8, 2015

V_freedom said: ↑

True! Thank you. I keep on forgetting that. But I've been thinking like that for quite a few weeks now and it feels better. I'm more than my story... I just find it hard to maintain that awareness.
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You are most welcome. Awareness is everything! Unfortunately, most of us are automatons. We have to wake up and seize the day and that starts with awareness. Stay strong brother. Win!

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