Relapsed this morning...

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sigh... I plan to start over.... I reckon this would be easier if I didn't have to use the computer for work ..smh......
 
Don't worry, it's something that happens to all of us! You need to analyse your relapsing cause and find a way to prevent it in the future.
 
Andreid said:
Don't worry, it's something that happens to all of us! You need to analyse your relapsing cause and find a way to prevent it in the future.
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Thx for the advice.. I humbly thought all my bases were covered with the blockers but somehow some triggering stuff slipped through.... at the moment I'm doing a block on out all sites except the ones I use for work daily since nothing else has worked.... I swear the subconscious mind is wickedly calculated....
 
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Stop relying on those blockers, just develop self discipline because you can relapse on a random sexy photo you find on the internet. Just cope with the fact you have a inner fight in life that you need to face everyday and by each day you manage to get stronger.
 
Andreid said:
Stop relying on those blockers, just develop self discipline because you can relapse on a random sexy photo you find on the internet. Just cope with the fact you have a inner fight in life that you need to face everyday and by each day you manage to get stronger.
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But there is triggers everywhere. So blockers can actually be a good thing, and it can make the reboot a whole lot easier.
 
Exactly, triggers are everywhere and that's why you have to develop a mindset that will ignore small triggers (porn not included).
 
Andreid said:
Exactly, triggers are everywhere and that's why you have to develop a mindset that will ignore small triggers (porn not included).
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True. And you want to avoid all porn as much as possible. Not only with blockers, but also a strong mindset
 
Andreid said:
Exactly, triggers are everywhere and that's why you have to develop a mindset that will ignore small triggers (porn not included).
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I'm being honest with you when I say this.. my ONLY trigger has been the online porn... and the blockers helped me for 11 days before I relapsed earlier.... the online triggers are the roadblock for me since I work from home online running my own business..... my career is making going pmo free more difficult than need be.... this may sound out there... but this age of electronic business is lucrative for me but helping to hurt me sexually and mentally at the same time.... I reckon a double edged sword......
 
It's upto the person if he wants to use blockers to quit pmo. I consider myself a porn addict for 12 years. I personally don't have any blockers and I didn't even delete the porn which I had previously. And I'm on the pc almost all the time. I do get horny and start fantasizing, but still keep myself from MO and P because I have a purpose for doing this. I need to reboot my brain because I have PIED problems. I'm 28 days in now, and thinking of MO-ing now only makes me think, all those days were for nothing then. That, and the embarassment this ED has caused me while having sex are motivational factors for me to quit P once and for all. But I understand others may not have the same motivation as me, so blockers are a good thing. Whatever works for you man, go for it..
 
Prashanna said:
It's upto the person if he wants to use blockers to quit pmo. I consider myself a porn addict for 12 years. I personally don't have any blockers and I didn't even delete the porn which I had previously. And I'm on the pc almost all the time. I do get horny and start fantasizing, but still keep myself from MO and P because I have a purpose for doing this. I need to reboot my brain because I have PIED problems. I'm 28 days in now, and thinking of MO-ing now only makes me think, all those days were for nothing then. That, and the embarassment this ED has caused me while having sex are motivational factors for me to quit P once and for all. But I understand others may not have the same motivation as me, so blockers are a good thing. Whatever works for you man, go for it..
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28 days! Keep going man!
I'm on day 1 (after relapsing) and I just got done handling a whitelist block that will keep distraction out of my way.....
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BEYOND 11 DAYS HERE I COME!
 
We are doing some boxing against our own shadow. You got a punch in your face maybe, but its not going to happend again easily.

You are working hard and getting better. Keep on it, get stronger.

If we are not willing to accept failure, how can we win?
 
Heráclito said:
We are doing some boxing against our own shadow. You got a punch in your face maybe, but its not going to happend again easily.

You are working hard and getting better. Keep on it, get stronger.

If we are not willing to accept failure, how can we win?
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Wise words man... almost three days back around again :)

Prashanna said:
All the best man :).
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Thx I wish you the same man!
 
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