Relapsing every 15 days

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cedelirent

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Hello, I have been doing PMO for 7 years. I am 20 and started at 13.
The first 4 years it was regular P, then for 1 year it was more extreme P, at least 1 times per day (it could go to 2 or 3 sometimes). The last 2 years I progressively stopped watching regular P, I was watching clothed women (femdom without nudity), also sometimes audio P and asmr, my fapping frequency fell down to between 1 per day and 1 every 2 days (I was doing it just by habbit, sometimes I wasn't fully excited / it was just to take it out).
I can get fully excited without watching P just by hearing a woman voice, is this good or bad ?
Then I discovered NoFap, my first try I did 2 weeks VERY easily, I had absolutely no urges... I relapsed on purpose (not urge) because I didn't want to restrain myself from O and have wet dreams.
The second try, I have made it to 30 days without any problem.
Third and fourth streaks I did 15 days, without the use of P.
I can get erect just by seeing a woman on a youtube video, or just by looking at my female friend's pictures on facebook / instagram (nothing sexual).
What should I do ? Do you think I am a porn addict ? Also, regular porn disgusts me and I prefer non-nudity content as stated above. Do you think my dopamine addiction is fading out ?
 
I think you have plenty of willpower. On my last streak I barely passed through day 6, where the relapse was quite unexpected. If you stopped watching porn, you can't consider yourself a porn addict. Just stay away from it, and avoid any trigger (like staying in your bedroom alone with your Instagram/Facebook open in some friend's profile page). Trust me, this is a hell of a trigger. At least for me.
 
Really? Not even the softcore ones? Either way, you're still masturbating. You should leave it all behind including those youtube women, which may seem not that heavy, but is a replacing for porn. So try to quit it too...
 
zepgarden said:
Really? Not even the softcore ones? Either way, you're still masturbating. You should leave it all behind including those youtube women, which may seem not that heavy, but is a replacing for porn. So try to quit it too...
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Yes, no softcore also. For example girls doing vlogs or english teachers
 
Porn isn’t the whole problem, the problem is getting turned on by pixels and not real women who you are in love with. To minimise pain and maximise pleasure, save all your sexual energy for a woman you love when you are with her.
 
g2stop said:
Porn isn’t the whole problem, the problem is getting turned on by pixels and not real women who you are in love with. To minimise pain and maximise pleasure, save all your sexual energy for a woman you love when you are with her.
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This. The problem is finding the right one, but I get what you're saying...
 
g2stop said:
Porn isn’t the whole problem, the problem is getting turned on by pixels and not real women who you are in love with. To minimise pain and maximise pleasure, save all your sexual energy for a woman you love when you are with her.
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But what should I do then ? Do nofap until I meet someone ? In my field of study there are really no girls, I can meet 0 of them. I don't want to use tinder or any app like this as I don't want a dirty girl
 
cedelirent said:
Hello, I have been doing PMO for 7 years. I am 20 and started at 13.
The first 4 years it was regular P, then for 1 year it was more extreme P, at least 1 times per day (it could go to 2 or 3 sometimes). The last 2 years I progressively stopped watching regular P, I was watching clothed women (femdom without nudity), also sometimes audio P and asmr, my fapping frequency fell down to between 1 per day and 1 every 2 days (I was doing it just by habbit, sometimes I wasn't fully excited / it was just to take it out).
I can get fully excited without watching P just by hearing a woman voice, is this good or bad ?
Then I discovered NoFap, my first try I did 2 weeks VERY easily, I had absolutely no urges... I relapsed on purpose (not urge) because I didn't want to restrain myself from O and have wet dreams.
The second try, I have made it to 30 days without any problem.
Third and fourth streaks I did 15 days, without the use of P.
I can get erect just by seeing a woman on a youtube video, or just by looking at my female friend's pictures on facebook / instagram (nothing sexual).
What should I do ? Do you think I am a porn addict ? Also, regular porn disgusts me and I prefer non-nudity content as stated above. Do you think my dopamine addiction is fading out ?
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Well, for someone who is highly addicted. A picture of a non-nude girl won't get them hard, nor will hearing a woman's voice.

That's a plus for you! :P :D :P :D :P
 
Hey,
I think you should maybe install a porn blocker if you won't succeed.
For me it's better to trust myself.
It's not terrible to be errected when you see a photo of a female.
I think it's the best for you to avoid this situations.
Try NoFap as long as you can !
Write down why you want to do NoFap and you can look every time, when you think of masturbating on this sheet. I think that helps you a little bit.

Sorry for my broken English.

Good Luck on your NoFap trip and don't give up !

LG VictimOfPorn
 
VictimOfPorn said:
Hey,
I think you should maybe install a porn blocker if you won't succeed.
For me it's better to trust myself.
It's not terrible to be errected when you see a photo of a female.
I think it's the best for you to avoid this situations.
Try NoFap as long as you can !
Write down why you want to do NoFap and you can look every time, when you think of masturbating on this sheet. I think that helps you a little bit.

Sorry for my broken English.

Good Luck on your NoFap trip and don't give up !

LG VictimOfPorn
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Your english is
*clicks tongue*
M'wah.
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BEAUTIFUL!
 
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